I really disagree, and this goes to the heart of the issue I have with your approach to Christianity. Control is the opposite of love.
Yet Jesus said this
“Therefore, everyone who acknowledges me before people, I also will acknowledge before my Father who is in heaven.But everyone who denies me before people, I also will deny before my Father who is in heaven.“Don’t think that I’ve come to bring peace to the earth. I haven’t come to bring peace but a sword.I’ve come to turn a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law.People’s enemies are members of their own households.“Those who love father or mother more than me aren’t worthy of me. Those who love son or daughter more than me aren’t worthy of me.Those who don’t pick up their crosses and follow me aren’t worthy of me.Those who find their lives will lose them, and those who lose their lives because of me will find them.“Those who receive you are also receiving me, and those who receive me are receiving the one who sent me.Those who receive a prophet as a prophet will receive a prophet’s reward. Those who receive a righteous person as a righteous person will receive a righteous person’s reward.I assure you that everybody who gives even a cup of cold water to these little ones because they are my disciples will certainly be rewarded.” - Matthew 10:32-42
Bible Gateway passage: Matthew 10:32-42 - Common English Bible
I disagree. Jesus practiced hospitality far too much for this statement to be taken seriously. He engaged in dialogue with people to find out what their needs were, asking "rabbinic" questions. He did not seek to needlessly alienate people.
And there is the problem, you cannot distinguish between Law and Gospel. You've confused the two.
And yet Isaiah 42:3 says that God will not break a bruised reed or quench a smoldering wick. That is the Gospel, that our Lord yields to us and serves us.