- Apr 20, 2017
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Don't get me wrong I think a wish list is great but from what I notice from my experiences in Christian online dating and regular online dating (before I was saved) is, there's too much focus is on finding someone to exactly suit their life the way it is single, rather than embracing trust in God's plan and looking a bit beyond themselves. I hope this bursts some unrealistic bubbles as I think they abound ! I say that wanting the best for all.
I joined a site that is claiming it's run by Christians, at least I don't get their sister sites invitations to join them like I did a non christian site which would send me non godly messages to join their wanton and immoral sites ! But my point is still on the Christian owned site, its much the same !
The amount of woman I've written to and never write back is disappointing, you may have written a page to reply to a wink or another preformed free message they sent you because they are cheapskates, then they don't even have the honor to write back and tell you why they don't wish to be friends, that may be the norm now in the fast paced world but it's not right. Some of this is because some people don't want to pay to reply so they just read and ignore you, hoping the next is the prince charming they dream of, and perhaps they say then I'll subscribe, if the perfect man comes along, who knows ??
Perhaps a lot of this behavior is the product of hefty membership fees in part, but also a society diseased with rudeness and ignorance, not to mention unrealistic expectations.
Then there's all the old redundant profiles the site keep to make you think there's more members, many sites are just money traps and the drive to connect husband and wife is secondary.
But beyond all of that I think most woman and surely some men too, are just too fussy in all types of dating, they could miss the two angels God sent them because they believe too much in the fairy tale partner is going to come along next and it never does, and after a while perhaps God gives up sending the angels disguised as humans with faults and all, and so many many people stay lonely and miserable. So sadly most peoples expectations are just too high of themselves, in this self centered narcissistic world. It's the middle ground where people find true love, and those who have found it had to be humble and make the odd trade off, who is foolish enough to believe they can have it all LOL
Tomorrow is based on how we treat people today and so is God's judgement, the internet may have sped up the pace of communication, but are we communicating in a quality way, that God would be happy with ? I guess that's why I came here to discuss this, as I know people here do care and will hopefully tell me I'm not the only one feeling this way ?
I pray everyone who desires to share their life with somebody special will find them and be able to see their real gifts and just how valuable they really are, and what could be done together to glorify God, not just their self image and ego.
EGO = Edging God Out !
God Bless
I joined a site that is claiming it's run by Christians, at least I don't get their sister sites invitations to join them like I did a non christian site which would send me non godly messages to join their wanton and immoral sites ! But my point is still on the Christian owned site, its much the same !
The amount of woman I've written to and never write back is disappointing, you may have written a page to reply to a wink or another preformed free message they sent you because they are cheapskates, then they don't even have the honor to write back and tell you why they don't wish to be friends, that may be the norm now in the fast paced world but it's not right. Some of this is because some people don't want to pay to reply so they just read and ignore you, hoping the next is the prince charming they dream of, and perhaps they say then I'll subscribe, if the perfect man comes along, who knows ??
Perhaps a lot of this behavior is the product of hefty membership fees in part, but also a society diseased with rudeness and ignorance, not to mention unrealistic expectations.
Then there's all the old redundant profiles the site keep to make you think there's more members, many sites are just money traps and the drive to connect husband and wife is secondary.
But beyond all of that I think most woman and surely some men too, are just too fussy in all types of dating, they could miss the two angels God sent them because they believe too much in the fairy tale partner is going to come along next and it never does, and after a while perhaps God gives up sending the angels disguised as humans with faults and all, and so many many people stay lonely and miserable. So sadly most peoples expectations are just too high of themselves, in this self centered narcissistic world. It's the middle ground where people find true love, and those who have found it had to be humble and make the odd trade off, who is foolish enough to believe they can have it all LOL
Tomorrow is based on how we treat people today and so is God's judgement, the internet may have sped up the pace of communication, but are we communicating in a quality way, that God would be happy with ? I guess that's why I came here to discuss this, as I know people here do care and will hopefully tell me I'm not the only one feeling this way ?
I pray everyone who desires to share their life with somebody special will find them and be able to see their real gifts and just how valuable they really are, and what could be done together to glorify God, not just their self image and ego.
EGO = Edging God Out !
God Bless
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