'Only White People,' Said the Little Girl

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'Only White People,' Said the Little Girl
Few things are more awesome than listening to kids playing on the playground. There's magic in that mix of laughter and exhausted breaths — giggle, pant, giggle.

Just the other Saturday at Maplewood's Memorial Park, I was watching my 5-year-old playing with his friends from day care. The kids have just started kindergarten and are now split up among four schools. Some industrious mom had the idea to get them together again.

It was a great idea. It was also the moment when I saw the messy birth of my son's otherness.

They were playing on one of those spinning things — you know, the one where kids learn about centrifugal force and as a bonus get crazy dizzy. They were having a blast.

"Only white people," said a little girl.
 

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Five years ago--only five years ago--I was taking an orientation course to sub in our local school district. So there were about 20 people in the course. During one session led by one of the high school principals, the principal asked the question: "If a fight starts in the hall, who do you protect first?"

A white woman at the end of the row immediately piped up: "The whites!"

I had to take a moment to blink, turn my head, and look at her.

The principal was also taken a bit aback. He then said, "I'm not happy with that answer."

The answer was: "Protect yourself. Make sure you're not inadvertently part of the melee. Then get a regular faculty member."
 
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I can't believe that's in the Opinion section of the NYT. A child saying something mean surely should be a front page story.
Hmm....
And what does it say under your avatar?

Where did this little girl get the idea that she expressed? :doh:
No racism in the US. Really?
 
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Hmm....
And what does it say under your avatar?

Where did this little girl get the idea that she expressed? :doh:
No racism in the US. Really?

I don't know, could've got it anywhere these days. Likely from an entertainment source, or from following SummerMadness' threads.
 
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I suspect that somewhere in America today people of different races were kind to each other.....but whats the fun in that.
Yeah the Indian cashier at my neighborhood store very kindly asked me to leave after I remarked that all the incence he was burning reminded me of a cross between a strawberry and smelly gym socks.
 
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I suspect that somewhere in America today people of different races were kind to each other.....but whats the fun in that.
I think most children are delightful and non-racist, but such scenarios are going to happen given the racial history of the United States.

It is quite difficult when trying to figure out how do you address this? Do you ignore it? What do you do when it happens again? Do you confront the children? Do you confront the parents but leave the children out of it? Do you confront both together? What should that confrontation look like? How should that discussion look? I think the author's conclusion at the end was a great response.
 
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I think the author's conclusion at the end was a great response.
I didn't have time to read the whole article before the 'you have used up your 10 articles for the month'. I don't have a subscription to the Times.
 
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Hm...indeed, the prospect of whites defending themselves is quite the politically incorrect notion for our modern time.

A teacher might at least not make such presumptions. Some of us black kids are Trek-loving geeks that get picked on.

But it does become clear to kids at quite a young age when the authorities in their worlds are making those presumptions.
 
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Aw man, next time I get a 12-week subscription gift, I'll send it to you.
Thanks that is a nice offer. :D

Would you tell me what she did, please? I really want to know.
 
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