Dear nameone. Jesus gave us some good advice in Matthew 22: 35-40.
The first and great Commandment is:" Love God with all thy heart, with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. The second is like it: love thy neighbour as thyself." In verse 40 we are told " On these two Commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets. God is Love, and God wants loving sons and daughters. My neighbour is all I know and all I meet, friends and not friends. In Matthew 7: 7-10: we are told :" On these two Commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets." We have to give up all our selfish wishes and wants, and start loving and caring, be kind and considerate, and be always friendly and helpful.
The Bible tells us " ask and be given," we ask God for Love and Joy, then thank God and share all love and joy with our neighbour. God will see our loving efforts, and God will Bless us. We keep doing this and God will keep approving and blessing us. We might stumble and forget at times, but then we ask God to forgive us and carry on be kind and loving. That will be a Spiritual awakening, dear nameone. I say this with love. Greetings from Emmy, your sister in Christ.