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So I've started picking my nephew up from daycare and keeping him for a few hours a couple of days a week. He's three and a half.

I'm not used to having a little one in my charge. So far I've been able to keep him entertained with batman cartoons, old toys of mine that I've kept over the years, and trips to the park. And I've kept him fed on string cheese (who knew?).

He's been well behaved for the most part. Nothing requiring more than a stern voice to correct. Hopefully he keeps being good since I've got no experience diciplining kids.

Overall, I must be doing something right because he gets real excited when he sees me at daycare and screams "Unka Tallguy88!" and runs to hug me. Then he gets excited when he hears we're going to my house for a few hours.

So, that's been going good so far. Not so good for me though because it's kicking my daddy instincts into overdrive. But at least I'm getting good practice for if/when I do have some of my own.

Interestingly, before I started spending so much time with him, I wanted a girl for myself, at least for the first child. Now I want a boy first. Funny how experience changes your perspective.
 

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FWIW (probably nothing) almost every parent I've talked to about it would rather have boys on the whole or a boy/girl mix...NOBODY said they wished they had all girls. Far easier to deal with, don't have the cattiness etc etc.

Glad it's going well! The way many parents spoil/coddle their kids now days, I have no desire to ever babysit. I have a low brat tolerance w/kids.
 
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FWIW (probably nothing) almost every parent I've talked to about it would rather have boys on the whole or a boy/girl mix...NOBODY said they wished they had all girls. Far easier to deal with, don't have the cattiness etc etc.

I want one of each. They say girls are easier until about 10, then boys are easier after about 10. I've not much experience with under 10 girls, but I'd rather deal with a teenage boy than teenage girl. I've lots of experience with teenage girls and they are a lot of drama and headaches. My nephew's mama (my baby sister) being a recent prime example. But she's turned into a fine woman since becoming a mama. Forced to mature and much easier to get along with, for the most part.

Glad it's going well! The way many parents spoil/coddle their kids now days, I have no desire to ever babysit. I have a low brat tolerance w/kids.
She doesn't let him run wild, she diciplines him good if he's acting up.

He hasn't been any trouble with me except not wanting to leave the park when it was time to go. He had a little tantrum, but I just carried him to the car and strapped him in and drove off. He calmed down quickly enough. I couldn't get too angry with him: he wanted to go back to my house instead of going home and was crying because he couldn't!
 
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Sounds like your doing a great job. 3-4 year olds have a lot of energy, so parks and playgrounds are a good bet. Or just getting outside. We picked up various little kids toys and big wheels, etc. at neighborhood rummage sales and had them for when our grandkids visited. Arts and crafts items can keep him occupied as well.
 
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I never appreciated my sons till I had a daughter. So low maintenance. I tell them all the time now!

Teenage girls--twice as much work, ten times as much expense. The drama!

I am very close to all my children, and probably closest to my daughter now (because she lives the closest, and is the youngest). But she was more work than both sons combined.

Your nephew would probably enjoy going to the library--and you could get him some books you could read together. And since there are tons of garage sales going on in the spring, you could probably pick up some reasonable puzzles, books, matchbox cars, and other things to entertain him. Maybe even a tricycle. TV is OK (you need some down time after work, too, I'm sure) but don't overdo it.
 
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So I've started picking my nephew up from daycare and keeping him for a few hours a couple of days a week. He's three and a half.

I'm not used to having a little one in my charge. So far I've been able to keep him entertained with batman cartoons, old toys of mine that I've kept over the years, and trips to the park. And I've kept him fed on string cheese (who knew?).

He's been well behaved for the most part. Nothing requiring more than a stern voice to correct. Hopefully he keeps being good since I've got no experience diciplining kids.

Overall, I must be doing something right because he gets real excited when he sees me at daycare and screams "Unka Tallguy88!" and runs to hug me. Then he gets excited when he hears we're going to my house for a few hours.

So, that's been going good so far. Not so good for me though because it's kicking my daddy instincts into overdrive. But at least I'm getting good practice for if/when I do have some of my own.

Interestingly, before I started spending so much time with him, I wanted a girl for myself, at least for the first child. Now I want a boy first. Funny how experience changes your perspective.





That sounds great. Kids are so much fun. Mind you I don't have any of my own. LOL but I have a ton of nieces and nephews.

I also have 3 adopted nephews. My friends kids call me uncle. Their parents cringe when I tell the boys I am going to beat their faces in and make them mush. They of course love it and want to fight me on a regular basis.

I think kids understand what is real. So that is probably why the rug rats like you. lol
 
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I never appreciated my sons till I had a daughter. So low maintenance. I tell them all the time now!

Teenage girls--twice as much work, ten times as much expense. The drama!

I am very close to all my children, and probably closest to my daughter now (because she lives the closest, and is the youngest). But she was more work than both sons combined.

Your nephew would probably enjoy going to the library--and you could get him some books you could read together. And since there are tons of garage sales going on in the spring, you could probably pick up some reasonable puzzles, books, matchbox cars, and other things to entertain him. Maybe even a tricycle. TV is OK (you need some down time after work, too, I'm sure) but don't overdo it.


All woman are drama. opps I posted this by accident. lol
 
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