So do Eastern Catholics and the Orthodox. We all have it in common, I'm not sure why it was mentioned on the list.
Yes - I am bit concerned. I am not advocating Catholicism, just stating what we believe.
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So do Eastern Catholics and the Orthodox. We all have it in common, I'm not sure why it was mentioned on the list.
I know, and you are right. Unfortunately, the Orthodox are not known for being Catholic-friendly. I go to ecumenical boards to read more productive dialogues between the two rather than to strictly Orthodox or Catholic boards. On Orthodox and Catholic boards alike, it's "we are right and they are wrong and hopefully our poor lost brothers will one day come home." Sigh.Yes - I am bit concerned. I am not advocating Catholicism, just stating what we believe.
I know, and you are right. Unfortunately, the Orthodox are not known for being Catholic-friendly. I go to ecumenical boards to read more productive dialogues between the two rather than to strictly Orthodox or Catholic boards. On Orthodox and Catholic boards alike, it's "we are right and they are wrong and hopefully our poor lost brothers will one day come home." Sigh.
By all means do not be afraid! But wear your thick skin when you post, okay?I am very much afraid of posting here, even though my only intention is to gain understanding.
By all means do not be afraid! But wear your thick skin when you post, okay?
Are you Catholic? Because your profile shows you as just "Christian."
Then you may want to update your settings so it's clear to everyone that you are.I always try to be kind.
And yes, I am very Catholic
There are not many young Orthodox Christians to marry in the states.
That's wonderful, Barky.I married a Catholic woman so I had to do a bunch of research myself. Catholics generally allow marriage to non-Catholics, however they must both promise to raise the children Catholic. However, for the Orthodox there is an exception. Because the Catholics consider Orthodox Christians to be extremely close ("real presence", etc.), they allow Catholics to be married in an Orthodox church AND raise the children Orthodox (this is what my gracious wife has agreed to, she loves Orthodoxy but isn't converting for a number of reasons).
To some others posting comments which seem to indicate the "sad state" of people being married from two different faiths, I think you're being ridiculous. There are not many young Orthodox Christians to marry in the states. Most churches are ethnic social clubs, where converts are looked on with suspicion and ostracized (generalization I know, but that doesn't make it false). My wife has been wonderful, fasting with me during the seasons and making food that aligns with the fast. We are talking about attending DL in an Orthodox church as well as a Byzantine Catholic church which would have the same Liturgy but my wife would be able to have communion.
Forgive me.
I married a Catholic woman so I had to do a bunch of research myself. Catholics generally allow marriage to non-Catholics, however they must both promise to raise the children Catholic. However, for the Orthodox there is an exception. Because the Catholics consider Orthodox Christians to be extremely close ("real presence", etc.), they allow Catholics to be married in an Orthodox church AND raise the children Orthodox (this is what my gracious wife has agreed to, she loves Orthodoxy but isn't converting for a number of reasons).
To some others posting comments which seem to indicate the "sad state" of people being married from two different faiths, I think you're being ridiculous. There are not many young Orthodox Christians to marry in the states. Most churches are ethnic social clubs, where converts are looked on with suspicion and ostracized (generalization I know, but that doesn't make it false). My wife has been wonderful, fasting with me during the seasons and making food that aligns with the fast. We are talking about attending DL in an Orthodox church as well as a Byzantine Catholic church which would have the same Liturgy but my wife would be able to have communion.
Forgive me.
That would depend on whether the person was Eastern Catholic or not. A few things confuse me - Latin Catholics do pray to the saints and do have evening prayer.
So do Eastern Catholics and the Orthodox. We all have it in common, I'm not sure why it was mentioned on the list.
Catholics must fast on every Friday unless they find another suitable penance. We absolutly fast on every Friday of Lent.
As a non-culturally identifiable Church, it is hard to give strict requirements regarding food.
To some others posting comments which seem to indicate the "sad state" of people being married from two different faiths, I think you're being ridiculous. There are not many young Orthodox Christians to marry in the states. Most churches are ethnic social clubs, where converts are looked on with suspicion and ostracized (generalization I know, but that doesn't make it false). My wife has been wonderful, fasting with me during the seasons and making food that aligns with the fast. We are talking about attending DL in an Orthodox church as well as a Byzantine Catholic church which would have the same Liturgy but my wife would be able to have communion.
Forgive me.
I don't like to comment on other's fasting practices, but to claim that the Roman fasts are anything like the Orthodox fasts is just incorrect.
When I was in seminary, I knew guys studying to be priests that had no clue about it either because they were not properly catechized. Nevertheless, we are called to fast or find some other penance. All food served on Friday was meatless.Maybe in other countries the every Friday fast is followed, but definitely not in America. When I used to confess to a Roman priest that I hadn't done a Friday penance they would laugh at me and say we didn't do that anymore. Multiple priests told me that. I knew many Roman Catholics. None of them fasted on Fridays.
Catholics also sin. I am not sure why you are pointing out the errors of others. Catholics commit adultery, that does not mean we believe it is moral. I just wanted to casually mention what we do believe which is what the Church teaches.As for fasting from meat on Friday in Lent, if that's followed (did you know that chicken doesn't count as meat for many Hispanic families? Or pepperoni, or bacon, or a slew of other things I was told aren't meat by Roman Catholics) the different selections aren't exactly Lenten for Orthodox either. I have relatives who just eat pancakes every Friday during Lent.
I'm truly happy for your friends, but I really don't know how to look specifically for an Orthodox spouse. Okay, I have a profile on Orthodoxchristiandating.com Ask me if I got a single letter so far - the answer is no. In the meantime, I'm chatting with these two men I met recently, one is Romanian (a nominal Orthodox but really not religious) and the other Polish American (a Catholic and a churchgoer but still bending certain commandments). Which one will I consider getting serious with? Automatically the Romanian because he is nominally Orthodox? I have no idea how to make faith play any role in this other than praying for guidance from God in these matters.Finally, I've had four friends get married in the past year. All Orthodox, all found Orthodox spouses. It's not so impossible as some would claim. Not that it's extraordinarily easy, but nothing in life is.
Hi Joseph- I did not compare fasting between us. I just pointed out that we do fast.
When I was in seminary, I knew guys studying to be priests that had no clue about it either because they were not properly catechized. Nevertheless, we are called to fast or find some other penance. All food served on Friday was meatless.
Catholics also sin. I am not sure why you are pointing out the errors of others. Catholics commit adultery, that does not mean we believe it is moral. I just wanted to casually mention what we do believe which is what the Church teaches.
Orthodox abide by lex orandi, lex credendi much more-so than Roman Catholics. I'm often told by Roman Catholics "Yes, people do _____, but the church teaches _______" That argument doesn't work with Orthodoxy.
But regardless of that, I'm talking about actual day to day practices, the reality of living with someone who practices differently.
Even a devout Roman who knows about the Friday penance doesn't fast on Wednesday, doesn't fast as strictly as the Great Fast, and has no spiritual compulsion to do so. It's very, very difficult to keep doing something that you know you could give up and still be fulfilling all the requirements of your church.
Catholics are not required to fast on Wednesdays.
I do find it interesting that you seem to emphasize fasting when that was one of the complaints of the east against the west prior to schism - that we fast too much.