OK. This concerns me. You say you've asked hundreds of women out online and yet you've also said you've only ever had 2 responses from scam artists on any given website. That leads me to think that you're just messaging women immediately to ask them out without laying any kind of ground work.
Well, I'll have to amend my statement from "asking women out online" to "approaching women online".
Of course I don't ask them out without trying to get to know them. The first thing I do is ask a question or two about something on their profile. The second thing I do is, as of yet, purely hypothetical.
If you were truly happy with yourself and had a positive mindset that showed that you were confident and OK with who you are - that would have shown and people would have responded to it.
I
was truly happy with myself and I
did actually, as a matter of fact, have a positive mindset, and
it did not help one bit.
If you really accepted yourself, you wouldn't have fallen to basing your worth on how women respond to you or how (un)successful your dating life is.
I don't base my worth on that. I know that I have plenty of worth, in other areas. But it turns out that my being good at some things and knowing some things and being valued by other people as a worker or helper or friend obviously does not translate into me being a desireable mate. I don't think I'm worthless, nor do I believe that other people think I'm worthless in general. But the fact remains that women specifically do not find me attractive, in spite of my general "worthiness". Whatever I have to offer is not what they are looking for.
Ethnog said:
You are doing something very very very wrong.... Which has nothing to do with looks.
Yeah, I know. Any hints?
I'm not sure it has nothing to do with looks. That's probably not the
only cause, but I'm not prepared to discount it.
wannaberocker said:
A good way to figure out what hes doing wrong, might be to ask them why they said No. I think being they are his friends, they might be honest about why they choose to decline his advances.
"Because you're my friend, and I don't want to jeopardize our friendship." Or something along those lines.
"I'm just not interested in dating right now." Followed by her meeting a man who completely changes her mind about that soon after. Or the variation, "God doesn't want me to date anyone right now." Which has always preceded God changing his mind when she meets a man soon after.
"I'm just not attracted to you." Probably also applies to the other ones, too...