Approaching Women

Just talk to them be interesting speak your mind.

Talk to a woman in a group is impossible you have to talk to the group and engage them as people not attractive women.

A lot of people think game is manipulation but its not its the humbleness to make a woman smile but yet the confidence that you get what you want

rawfan1989 said:

How would someone approach women without looking creepy.

Plus I was wandering if there is like 4 girls in a group and you get rejected by one or do you get rejected by all of them. That may need clarity.

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Don't have creepy thoughts?

And do not solo approach a group of four girls.... really, you want a relationship with someone, and should consider friendship first without any sexual baggage attached.

And trust God to set you up.

A friend of mine in NC would invite all of them out for coffee
or sometimes he would bring coffee and snacks to share
with them, just so he could talk to "one" particular girl but
didn't want her to "know" he was interested in her at the time.
He talked to all of them but it was her info that he kept mental notes of lol!

Just go up and say hi, if she returns hi and then doesnt creep out keep the convo moving. what you here for? did you hear about this? you thought it was going to rain today?

But if there are a group of 4 girls...dont try to "double dip" and talk to all of them to see who will entertain you. That looks playerish and its kind of rude.

rawfan1989 said:

How would someone approach women without looking creepy.

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This is beyond your control and it doesn't matter anyway, it's primarily her issue if she sees you that way. Unless you never shower and look like Charles Manson.

rawfan1989 said:

Plus I was wandering if there is like 4 girls in a group and you get rejected by one or do you get rejected by all of them. That may need clarity.

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Rejected for what? Saying hello and asking how they're doing and making conversation? If a woman or group of women do that to you, then they are morons and not worth your time. Go find someone else worth talking to. There are enough women around who will return your effort.

rawfan1989 said:

How would someone approach women without looking creepy.

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If she's in a group, converse with all of them about a neutral topic. You don't want her to feel like she's on the spot.

This might sound weird and some might disapprove, but if you want practice talking to girls, chat rooms are a great place to start.

I said a lot of dumb stuff to a lot of girls I will never know in different parts of the world, but so glad I never said those things in real life.

go up to them and start to talk and see how they are when you talk to them you can tell if they like talking with you or want you to go away. creepy would be if you kept talking with them after they said they are no longer interested.

also its good to meet someone that shares your values and church so meet girls at church funtions or church events is often a good way to meet girls.

see if your church has singles nights or get to know eachother kind of things.

Thank you. (You do not need nunchuk skills.)

Remember that girls want a friend. They are excited about potential romance, but ultimately they want someone they can talk easily with... someone who listens and respects them.
That's a great idea, bc it takes the pressure off everyone. It's awkward for both people to go face to face and have to make decisions about whether they like each other, without a good conversation first. It will appear sweet and unselfish that you invited them all.
Good point. A woman wants to feel like you are only interested in them. Shooting randomly for anyone who will accept you comes across as an insult. Asking out two women in one week comes across as two-timing. (Doesn't sound like you're doing that.)

Confidence may seem like someone is so self-assured that they think about themselves, but when someone comes across confident, they usually show they are thinking about other people, and do not need things themselves. Looking relaxed and content with life is good, appreciating others for their strengths, not being in a panic to reach a goal of acceptance or dating (or possessing)... that stance will help you in a lot of social interactions. Care about people, and they will respond.