Hello. I am new here to the forums. I found the site out of desperate need of other christians advice. I am in a bad situation that only seems to get worse and I want to do what God would have me do and nothing else. I haven't heard what that is yet but perhaps you could help or at least offer prayer.
I am 16 years old and 15 weeks pregnate
. My parents handled it much better than I thought they would. But now things are getting worse because of what my boyfriend and I want to do. We would like to be together for all of the doctor visits because even though they don't think it's a special thing, Cliff and I know that this baby will be with us forever and that no matter what it is special to us. My parents woudln't allow him at the first visit which upset us both. There was a big drawn out deal about that and my parents were really upset. Now the second doctor visit we were to see the baby for the first time. This time Cliff and I just wanted to be the only ones to be a part of this event which would be and awesome memory. But my mom wanted to be there. Its not that I didn't want her there, I just wanted Cliff and I to be alone for it. My mom had an unexpected meeting during the time of the doctors visit and we thought everything would be fine because she wouldn't be able to make it and no ones feelings would be hurt. But then I dissobeyed by letting him in through the whole first part of the visit when my mom just wanted him in for the ultrasound. Now my parents are very upset towards me. Cliff found out at from the doctor that even though I am 16, being pregnate makes me an emancipated minor and any decision about the doctor I have full say on. My parents are saying he absolutly can not go to the next visit. My dad is threatening to move and they even changed my doctor and won't tell me when I am going to insure he doesn't go. Everything is a huge mess and I am so confused.
Even though I have th right to say what go on with the doctor appointments, would listening and obeying my parents be whats best? How do you think God would have me go about this? Right now I feel really upset and so confused. I don't want to upset my parents, and i don't want Cliff to be upset and thinking that I don't care about what happens.
-Please Help me-
I am 16 years old and 15 weeks pregnate
. My parents handled it much better than I thought they would. But now things are getting worse because of what my boyfriend and I want to do. We would like to be together for all of the doctor visits because even though they don't think it's a special thing, Cliff and I know that this baby will be with us forever and that no matter what it is special to us. My parents woudln't allow him at the first visit which upset us both. There was a big drawn out deal about that and my parents were really upset. Now the second doctor visit we were to see the baby for the first time. This time Cliff and I just wanted to be the only ones to be a part of this event which would be and awesome memory. But my mom wanted to be there. Its not that I didn't want her there, I just wanted Cliff and I to be alone for it. My mom had an unexpected meeting during the time of the doctors visit and we thought everything would be fine because she wouldn't be able to make it and no ones feelings would be hurt. But then I dissobeyed by letting him in through the whole first part of the visit when my mom just wanted him in for the ultrasound. Now my parents are very upset towards me. Cliff found out at from the doctor that even though I am 16, being pregnate makes me an emancipated minor and any decision about the doctor I have full say on. My parents are saying he absolutly can not go to the next visit. My dad is threatening to move and they even changed my doctor and won't tell me when I am going to insure he doesn't go. Everything is a huge mess and I am so confused. Even though I have th right to say what go on with the doctor appointments, would listening and obeying my parents be whats best? How do you think God would have me go about this? Right now I feel really upset and so confused. I don't want to upset my parents, and i don't want Cliff to be upset and thinking that I don't care about what happens.
-Please Help me-
