That you don't have the specific skills to serve that specific need doesn't preclude you from individually or as part of a group, providing the resources that make it possible for someone with those skills to provide the services at little to no cost to the end user.
That is my point exactly and I'm glad that we agree on this point.
So in the end, our difference are really just in how we define the bolded term. I define my community as "a group" and so therefore, paying taxes to the representatives of our community who have organized skilled workers to do that job, is a sensible thing to do. You seem to think that "a group" can only be defined as a private (for profit?... or is that not necessarily a pre-requisite) organization.
Another point that is being lost here is the confusion around "charity". I had originally agreed with you chaz, that charity is the heart of God's work. After some thought, I now have to disagree.
For me, compassion is at the heart of God's work. Compassionate is what God truly wants us to be. Charitable is too action specific whereas compassionate is a state of mind from which charity can arise.
Like someone else said, if helping the poor and giving to the government were in any way related, then why did he separate it when he said to give to the government (Ceasar) what is theirs and give to God what is His?
As for this separation; I take it more to mean that God wants us to focus on things of value and to concentrate on what calls us towards work he approves of. IOW, we should not place such value in money; so much concern into what is "ours". Our "things" are meaningless, but what God wants from us is meaningful.
What I read with that question is this idea that money has to go to two places: Government and God.
God does not want our money. I don't recall Jesus talking about tithing ever (am I mistaken there?).
He wants His compassionate work done. THAT is what he wants. If we pay our money to help the poor with an open heart, why is that a bad thing?
If I happily and willingingly pay taxes to help the less fortunate, why would God be choked? Strike that.
Why would God care?
In my mind, money is not an object to be hoarded and protected. My money doesn't rule my life. God calls on me to pay taxes? Would God want my tax money to be used to pay for the flap on a wing of an F-16 or a soup kitchen?
When I see conservatives on here overly concerned with "who has control over there money", I think they are missing the whole point of Christ's message of the focus on Him. They are worried about the government taking all their money; statements like that suggest to me that their money has control over them.