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Something I've always wondered, and struck me again as I was reading a thread below......

Why do Calvinists argue with people? If Calvinism is correct, those that are saved will believe anyway without their help (and accept Calvinism as true, I suppose) only by God's effort. It's almost as if they feel their audience might have free will to change their mind, which is rather Armenian in nature.

What exactly is the Calvinist mindset on this subject?

Well, one could ask the same thing about ANYTHING a Calvinist does. Why does a Calvinist buy car insurance, for instance? Of course, this question only makes sense if one assumes that the Calvininst is really a cartoonish carichature of a person.

This reminds me of a joke, well not a joke really, whatever it is just enjoy.

"He was as cool as a Presbyterian with four aces and loaded six-gun"
 
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I agree with the above. I think any Armenian would agree with this as well.

Regarding a Scripture quoted by a Calvinist in a post above....

Rom 10:14 How then shall they call on him in whom they have not believed? and how shall they believe in him whom they have not heard? and how shall they hear without a preacher?

It seems to me this Scripture runs COUNTER to Calvinist theology....

1. One cannot call on Him unless one believes.
2. One cannot believe unless one hears.
3. One cannot hear unless one preaches.

So what this verse seems to be saying to me is this...

"If one chooses to preach, many will hear and therefore believe and therefore "call on Him""
"If one chooses not to preach, then few will hear, and believe and therefore "call on Him""

So it seems what we do has a direct effect on the number of people who will be saved. But this conclusion runs counter to the assertion that there is a fixed number of "chosen people" independent of our doing.

So....
1. Why preach the Gospel if it has no direct effect? Simply because we are commanded to? What is the purpose of teaching either many or few?
2. How does the Calvinist interpret this verse differently than what I see?


The Calvinist reads and understands these verses in the full light of the following text.

Rom 8:28-30
28 And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.
29 For whom he did foreknow, he also did predestinate to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brethren.
30 Moreover whom he did predestinate, them he also called: and whom he called, them he also justified: and whom he justified, them he also glorified. KJV

In the salvation of souls there are parts to play. God’s people have a role, the description of which is described within the context of Romans 10.

Rom 10:14-15
14 How then shall they call on him in whom they have not believed? and how shall they believe in him of whom they have not heard? and how shall they hear without a preacher?
15 And how shall they preach, except they be sent? as it is written, How beautiful are the feet of them that preach the gospel of peace, and bring glad tidings of good things! KJV

And God Himself has the most vital roles, in addition to providing the needed messenger, it is essential that God act as described Rom 8:30. God must call and justify (declare righteous) the one being saved.

Blessings,
 
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How were you saved? In your own words.

By your question do you mean, what was I thinking at the time? How would I have explained it at the time, from my human perspective?

I came to embrace a vague understanding of the veracity of God's Word (I had previously read the NT in its entirety but failed to grasp its meaning) as I sat half-listening to a sermon. I was half-listening because I was facing a decision that would have major impact upon my family. The pastor was preaching on the defeat of Jericho. And as was my norm I was either lending my affirmation to points that he made with which I agreed, or ignoring those things that didn't meet my own persnal standards for truth.

As he summarized his point, I realized (I KNEW) that God had provided me with the answer to my nagging question. With that realization, I was confronted with the truth that God was real, Jesus was real, and His Word was truth, and that I needed to trust God with my life.

At the time I don't believe I could have provided any coherent explanation of the gospel. I did not know the biblical language related to salvation. I had never attended what could be called a solid gospel/Bible preaching church.

My thinking was profoundly changed.
 
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By your question do you mean, what was I thinking at the time? How would I have explained it at the time, from my human perspective?

I came to embrace a vague understanding of the veracity of God's Word (I had previously read the NT in its entirety but failed to grasp its meaning) as I sat half-listening to a sermon. I was half-listening because I was facing a decision that would have major impact upon my family. The pastor was preaching on the defeat of Jericho. And as was my norm I was either lending my affirmation to points that he made with which I agreed, or ignoring those things that didn't meet my own persnal standards for truth.

As he summarized his point, I realized (I KNEW) that God had provided me with the answer to my nagging question. With that realization, I was confronted with the truth that God was real, Jesus was real, and His Word was truth, and that I needed to trust God with my life.
Does not everyone need to do that?
 
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Brilliant question.

Oh Chet! It is only a "brilliant question" if you insist on equating Calvinism with fatalism.

It might actually help your debates with Calvinists if you accept some of the things that they say about their own beliefs, as what they actually believe, and then attempt to prove those things to be in conflict with the Scriptures.
 
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Does not everyone need to do that?

By "that" I assume you are referring to trusting God? Assuming that is what you were asking . . .




Absolutely. To become saved one must believe on Christ, and an element in that belief must be to trust in God (the One that reveals Christ).

To be saved one must move from unbelief to belief. And to believe, one must choose to believe. But it is akin to a man born blind being given sight. Is it legitimate to say that the man must choose to see. In a manner of speaking, yes. He could opt to keep his eyes closed, or he could choose not to believe what they reveal to him is true. He could choose to continue being led by the hand.

But he does none of these things. He does the ONLY thing that makes sense. He chooses to believe his eyes and respond accordingly. Where he perceives a chair he sits in it - he does not even reach out to touch it first to make sure it is there. His ability to see it is all the evidence he requires.

Similarly, when a man is born again, he is given spiritual eyes to see. He has received, as a gift, the &#8220;substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.&#8221; And when this man receives the message of the gospel of Jesus Christ, he perceives that it is his only true hope of rest and restoration unto God.

He is not forced to believe. There are no puppet strings directing his thoughts. He rests in the gospel with the same confidence and enthusiams that the formerly blind man has as he settles himself in the chair.
 
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To be saved one must move from unbelief to belief. And to believe, one must choose to believe. But it is akin to a man born blind being given sight. Is it legitimate to say that the man must choose to see. In a manner of speaking, yes. He could opt to keep his eyes closed, or he could choose not to believe what they reveal to him is true. He could choose to continue being led by the hand.

But he does none of these things. He does the ONLY thing that makes sense. He chooses to believe his eyes and respond accordingly. Where he perceives a chair he sits in it - he does not even reach out to touch it first to make sure it is there. His ability to see it is all the evidence he requires.

Are there people who "opt to keep their eyes closed" once they are given Sight, who "choose not to believe what is revealed to him is true" by God?
 
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Well, one could ask the same thing about ANYTHING a Calvinist does. Why does a Calvinist buy car insurance, for instance? Of course, this question only makes sense if one assumes that the Calvininst is really a cartoonish carichature of a person.

This reminds me of a joke, well not a joke really, whatever it is just enjoy.

"He was as cool as a Presbyterian with four aces and loaded six-gun"
:)

I would assume a Calvinist buys car insurance because he has a car. A more appropriate question would be, "Why would a Calvinist with no car buy car insurance?"

What people believe deeply causes them to act on those beliefs in certain ways. If I see someone acting in a manner inconsistant with their beliefs then either.....

1. I don't understand their beliefs correctly.
2. They don't understand the implications of their own beliefs correctly.
3. They don't hold to those beliefs as strongly as one might think.

The knowledge that one is a Calvinist tells you nothing about car insurance. However, the knowledge than one is Calvinist does pertain to questions of free-will and man's ability to reason.

In any event, I've always felt, "if you wanted to know what a Baptist thinks....ask a Baptist." That's why I'm here.

I think the original question is a fair question....
 
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I had this reply all ready to go earlier, but i lost my internet connection for a while...

Forgive me if I have missed some things in the past, but when I got here, I see thread titles like "The 39 questions the Armenian can't answer" and "The Armenian game of semantics". These posts seem to be rather "offensive" (not of-fensive ) in nature rather than "defensive". Would these be sinful as well? I also notice one of you has a signature speaking of anti-Calvinist "logic" on each of his posts. Is this "pre-emptive defense"?

Yes, some Calvinists do go on the offensive (not to offend, but to engage in debate). Deliberately provoking, through accusations of sin, etc. is not debate. Is it sin? that's between them and God. I display some over-the-top statements that others have made in my sig, not to provoke, but to highlight the level of thinking (or lack of it) that passes for anti-Calvinist pontifications.

Rom 10:14 How then shall they call on him in whom they have not believed? and how shall they believe in him whom they have not heard? and how shall they hear without a preacher?


I take you at your word that you believe the above. However, I am still puzzled. Not knowing HOW one is saved and knowing that one WILL be saved regardless of your effort are two different things to me. If God has already chosen, and our efforts are futile (positively or negatively), what difference does "hearing" from us make? What does "willy-nilly" mean? (Or more to the point, "what does "not willy-nilly" " mean? Does the Calvinist play some small role in the overall process with others?

Calvinists believe that the Bible teaches that God uses means to accomplish His Purpose, and in the verse above, the means God uses is the preacher, and the preaching of the Gospel. By means, I am talking about agents (preachers) to spread and proclaim His Message, which is the Gospel. Except in rare cases, God does not preach the Gospel directly Himself. So, anyone who preaches the Gospel plays a part, but it is only that which God expects of the Christian. We can take no credit for it. We are commanded to preach the Gospel, and God is pleased by that preaching, to bring into the Kingdom those whom He has fore-ordained to salvation.

I do understand the sense of frustration when you believe something and cannot seem to get others to see it the same way. With the Catholic, when he argues, he believes (I suppose) that he could actually change someone's mind. But with the Calvinist, believing what I think you believe, I keep coming back to the same question: "Why does it matter to you?"

For the simple reason that we do not know whom God has chosen, so we preach to all men, that those who He has chosen are brought into the kingdom. The preaching of the gospel is foolishness to them who are perishing, but to them who are being saved, it is the Power of God.


What is it about Calvinism I do not understand that would cause me to feel this way?

To be blunt, yet not condescending, or hurtful, it is lack of knowledge of what Calvinism teaches. You will not get a true picture of Calvinism from those who oppose it, any more than you would get unbiased advice about buying a Chevy from a Ford dealer.
 
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Are there people who "opt to keep their eyes closed" once they are given Sight, who "choose not to believe what is revealed to him is true" by God?

It's always dangerous to press a metaphor to far. But I'll give it a try.

To my recollection, there is no evidence of those who are given "sight" choosing to keep their eyes closed. If some come to mind, point them out and I can try to address them.

There is ample evidence of blind men being presented with chairs, of blind men embracing their blindness because they, at some level, fear what they would see.

There are examples of those who claim to have sight but keep bumping into things.
 
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er.....


I VERY rarely see calvinists actually START arguments........... (cept a few idiots who don't even understand it)

most calvinists i know are fine with moving along with life and others not agreeing with them. it's always the arminiasts (sp is way off, i know) who get all freaked out about it and demand asking a bazillion questions about calvinism trying to 'disprove' it in some way. although this usually goes back to the same arguments 'that's not fair', or 'you're saying we never have a choice'.

Which goes back to your first point, the idiots who don't even understand it. It always amazes me that the ones who know the least are the most vocal. I've always heard that it's better to be silent, and thought a fool, than to open one's mouth and remove all doubt. And when some anti- or non-Calvinist starts demanding answers, I know that they have no intention of listening, so I tend to not waste my breath with such small minds.

You're right, the anti-Calvinists (read: Arminians), and those who eschew the Arminian label, but still hold to many Arminian views, are the ones who get all freaked out and nervous, and try to "silence" the Calvinists, with their latest "whiz-bang" doctrine which "disproves" all of Calvinism in one fell swoop, and then push it incessantly, and repetitiously, ad infinitum, ad nauseum. And they take umbrage to any Calvinist pointing out the ridiculous and unscriptural nature of said "whiz-bang" doctrine, hurling invective, derogation, disparagement, and false accusations at the Calvinists, accusing Calvinists of those sinful behaviors, and then objecting when we point out that they engage in the very things they accuse Calvinists of. Go figure.....
 
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[post=48200136]JDIBe:[/post]
> Forgive me if I have missed some things in the past, but when I got
> here, I see thread titles like "The 39 questions the Armenian can't
> answer" and "The Armenian game of semantics". These posts seem to be
> rather "offensive" (not of-fensive ) in nature rather than "defensive".
> Would these be sinful as well? I also notice one of you has a signature
> speaking of anti-Calvinist "logic" on each of his posts. Is this
> "pre-emptive defense"?


This is a common mistake, by the way: Armenian and Arminian are two
entirely different words--the first, an ethnicity; the second, a
theology. Mix those two up in the wrong crowd, and you'll get in
trouble. Here, we know what you mean, but I'm just mentioning it now.

You could probably say it's less of a "pre-emptive defnse" and more of a
reaction to perceived failure of coherent argumentation against the
Calvinist position. (I actually have had signatures turned off since
registering with the website, so I only see them when I visit a user's
profile.) I think it'd be "pre-emptive" if, say, the person had not
encountered (or only rarely encountered) poor arguments and decided he
should it out on the table first before he does encounter it. However, I
think that's not the case here.

Also, I think there's good reason it's in a signature: Signatures appear
with each post (at least for those who've enabled them), and it's a good
method to call attention to something constantly without being troubled
to write it up each time--so long as it's something that requires we be
reminded of it. Say, for instance, if the quote in the signature is
"Remember 9/11," a statement which all Americans recognize. If that's
close to the user's heart, he'll make sure it's known with every post of
his. Or, in another instance, say a user is a known Internet troll, a
persistent trouble-maker--a user might wish to insert in his profile,
"So-and-so is a known troll." There is then no need to seek out every
place the troll posts and follow up with a declaration that he is a
troll. It's just a ubiquitous statement.

Incidentally, for a good example that I think some users should adopt,
Andrew C. Bain is what I would call a troll of sorts. He is a
hyper-Calvinist (which is different from "Calvinist") who is fairly
active on the Internet with his condemnation of Christians that he feels
are too "liberal"--notably, Christians such as John Calvin and Charles
Spurgeon, listed in his "Heterodoxy Hall of Shame." As I said, he seems
to be active all over the Internet (and I would not be surprised if he's
been banned from here), and so I would not have any problem with a
signature or two that reacts to that by proclaiming that he is what he
is.

This is how I see such signatures that you mention--a way of saying, "Be
it known, this character makes a marked habit of this."

The thread you mention, I'll admit, is on offense, but it seems to be
another of the circular types of threads that so often make their
appearance here.

> I take you at your word that you believe the above. However, I am still
> puzzled. Not knowing HOW one is saved and knowing that one WILL be saved
> regardless of your effort are two different things to me. If God has
> already chosen, and our efforts are futile (positively or negatively),
> what difference does "hearing" from us make? What does "willy-nilly"
> mean? (Or more to the point, "what does "not willy-nilly" " mean? Does
> the Calvinist play some small role in the overall process with others?


What I mean is that preaching the word is the means by which men are
saved. When I say that God does not save "willy-nilly," I mean that
people are not saved without some means towards it. The predestining of
how people are saved is just as predestined as who are saved. I can't
see it making sense any other way without violating Scripture. We know
from Scripture that there is an elect, chosen by God. We know from
Scripture that people are saved through hearing "the folly of what we
preach"
(1 Cor. 1:21). It does not follow that God leaves one up to
chance and while securing the other.

> I do understand the sense of frustration when you believe something and
> cannot seem to get others to see it the same way. With the Catholic,
> when he argues, he believes (I suppose) that he could actually change
> someone's mind. But with the Calvinist, believing what I think you
> believe, I keep coming back to the same question: "Why does it matter to
> you?"


I read a book called The Reformed Doctrine of Predestination and found
this to be an interesting quote, if I may:

> Practically, Mohammedanism holds to a predestination of ends regardless
> of means. The contrast with the Christian system is seen in the
> following story. A ship crowded with Englishmen and Mohammedans was
> ploughing through the waves. Accidentally one of the passengers fell
> overboard. The Mohammedans looked after him with indifference, saying,
> "If it is written in the book of destiny that he shall be saved, he
> shall be saved without us; and if it is written that he shall perish, we
> can do nothing"; and with that they left him. But the Englishmen said,
> "Perhaps it is written that we should save him." They threw him a rope
> and he was saved.


I think this is an accurate Biblical answer to your concern above. Only
in this case, it's less of a question of "perhaps" it is written that
one should be saved (from the water); rather, in our current discussion,
it is on evangelism, and knowing that the primary means of conversion
God has given to us: preaching of His Word--which, as we've already
found out, is done through a person speaking, using words. If what you
meant about changing minds is actually convincing the non-Calvinists to
become Calvinists, well, I cannot comment, because I don't know of a
reason to believe that that's certainly a predestined fact. I do say I
applaud their exaltation of God and abasement of man--a belief which I
think more Christians ought to hold.
 
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Perhaps I'm mistaken, but I get the impression that this sub-forum is all but a platform for Calvinism, with a single Catholic chipping in with the same old point, with variations. It's really rather tedious.

Given the rabid anti-Calvinism you've displayed, i am not surprised. But, you're dead wrong. And your posts are rather tedious as well, but I'm betting you knew that.
 
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Given the rabid anti-Calvinism you've displayed, i am not surprised. But, you're dead wrong. And your posts are rather tedious as well, but I'm betting you knew that.
And, the OP point is validated by this very response.

-A
 
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And, the OP point is validated by this very response.

-A

Whatever. If you want to discuss scripture, that's fine. If you're just going to snipe, then you get it right back. I'm tired being vilified, disparaged, and of having to defend myself just because I support Calvinist understanding. The OP applies to you as much or more than it does to me. I only bite if I'm bitten. If you want that to change, you know what you need to do.

It seems that the anti-Calvinists can dish it out, but they can't take it. They think nothing of telling Calvinists they're wrong, but object mightily when they are shown to be wrong.
 
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To the OP: simple.

"God ordains means as well as ends."

In other words, Calvinism is a consistent theology, with consistent principles and results.

And for the record, I have to ask, why do anti-Calvinists argue with others, when they think God has ordained human will should be free of controls? Why should they be trying to control someone God has set free?
 
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From post # 18

JDIBe said:
Rom 10:14 How then shall they call on him in whom they have not believed? and how shall they believe in him whom they have not heard? and how shall they hear without a preacher?
It seems to me this Scripture runs COUNTER to Calvinist theology....

1. One cannot call on Him unless one believes.
2. One cannot believe unless one hears.
3. One cannot hear unless one preaches.

So what this verse seems to be saying to me is this...
"If one chooses to preach, many will hear and therefore believe and therefore "call on Him""
"If one chooses not to preach, then few will hear, and believe and therefore "call on Him""

So it seems what we do has a direct effect on the number of people who will be saved. But this conclusion runs counter to the assertion that there is a fixed number of "chosen people" independent of our doing.
So....
1. Why preach the Gospel if it has no direct effect? Simply because we are commanded to? What is the purpose of teaching either many or few?
2. How does the Calvinist interpret this verse differently than what I see?
What you are missing is that one plants, one waters (preaching), but it is God that gives the increase.

In peace
Eric_C
 
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Whatever. If you want to discuss scripture, that's fine. If you're just going to snipe, then you get it right back. I'm tired being vilified, disparaged, and of having to defend myself just because I support Calvinist understanding.

Quite the opposite, really. Everytime scripture is discussed you chime in with "...again the anti-Calvinist shows his ignorance....". When your not busy casting pejoratives your too busy being the victim to contribute anything valuable to the discussion. It's this sort of tired rhetoric that make you and others (is RTE listening?) the subject of topics like this.

Take a deep breath, drop the superiority complex and discuss substance. Perhaps then this ignoble image that has been cast will transmute and you'll affect others to help achieve a more civil dialogue.

-A
 
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