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stmaryofegypt3

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My dear friends in Christ,
I am trying to understand a certain situation and wonder if any of you could shed some light. I have a friend who is a devout Roman Catholic and she met a Coptic Orthodox guy. Having read a bit about the CO Church I see that it would be impossible for them to marry unless she convert to Coptic Orthodoxy which she has no intention of doing. So I am wondering why this CO guy continues to pursue her if he knows she will not convert. From what I have read, he would be ex-communicated if he married a non Coptic Orthodox. So would it be possible for the CO Church to make an exception in certain cases...that they could each remain faithful to their Religion and be married? Otherwise why would he continue to pursue her and give her hope? He loves his faith too and would never leave it either. It just doesn't make sense to me and I am concerned that he is leading my friend on and she will get hurt.
I would appreciate any thoughts that could be helpful and I hope this post is not offensive.
In Christ and the Theotokos,
Marie
 

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according to the Coptic Orthodox Church laws it is not allowed to mary non orthodox , we can marry any Oriental Orthodox ( Syrian , Armenian , Ethiopean , Eritrean , Indian ) and also it is allowed now to marry from Eastern Orthodox .
so she must baptize as Orthodox First .
- and about why he still pursue her that is his problem not our Church Problem
 
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There's one thing I don't understand. Someone mentioned to me that in Egypt, the Pope allowed marriage between Coptic Catholics and Coptic Orthodox. To me, if this was true, it would be inconsistent on behalf of the Pope and the bishops to disallow Coptic Orthodox to marry Roman Catholics.

I would personally say it is wrong to marry outside Orthodoxy. You want a spouse not only to love, but to also share with you communion and relation with Christ as part of the Church. Even among OO's and EO's, if one is to marry outside his/her jurisdiction, we advise very strongly that they stick to one jurisdiction and not do some sort of "church hopping" for the sake of the family, and in the future, the children.

It is however not wrong to stay married to someone non-Orthodox if you were once not Orthodox. That St. Paul was talking about when the spouse's conversion makes holy a non-believer, even though he puts some unassurance that you will not know if you will have your own spouse saved.

God bless.

Mina
 
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stmaryofegypt3 said:
Thank you, Coptic Orthodoxy, for your frank response. I did not know that Coptic Orthodox could marry EO.
Peace to you.

That is new decision between The Coptic Orthodox Church of Alexandria & The Greek Orthodox Church of Alexandria
 
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Mina,
I think this is the problem. This CO gentleman I spoke about grew up in Egypt and often saw marriage between Coptic Orth. and Coptic Catholics. So he thinks it is not a big deal when people of the two different faiths marry. So is that the case in Egypt...a Coptic Orthox. can marry a Coptic Catholic without the Coptic Catho. having to convert?
Thanks for your help,
Blessings,
Marie
 
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stmaryofegypt3 said:
Mina,
I think this is the problem. This CO gentleman I spoke about grew up in Egypt and often saw marriage between Coptic Orth. and Coptic Catholics. So he thinks it is not a big deal when people of the two different faiths marry. So is that the case in Egypt...a Coptic Orthox. can marry a Coptic Catholic without the Coptic Catho. having to convert?
Thanks for your help,
Blessings,
Marie

The Coptic Orthodox Church in Egypt don't allow the marriage between the Coptic Orthodox And Coptic Catholic , i am sure of that , and if that happened that is not official and the Pope of Alexandria didn't allow that
 
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