The Singles Question Thread

Jenster said:

That TOTALLY rocks, Pyro! Praise Him!




Energy - definitely! Call it boyishness, passion or just plain physical energy, but I love it!

How soon into a new dating relationship would you start praying with your gf/bf? And no, I don't mean saying grace!

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I try to praise Him, but most times the Spirit does a better job through me.

I would start praying with my girlfriend (read: best friend) the day she felt comfortable with it; I would hope that we'd start praying after about two weeks, though my preference is to start immediately.

What's your favorite attribute of a typical* church service?

*Typical being what YOU are used to.

I teach Sunday School so I dont get to listen

Would you date someone with a child?

eouw, that is a toughie..the child would have to stay home, I think.

Does everything have to be perfect for your date to go well? What is a big no-no that would make you start seeing your date as smaller and smaller? If your date had no life in him, would you try to pump him up? Or would you say, "This is too much work! He's supposed to be pampering me! Not, I, him!..."

To Pyro: My sister has spina bifida, so I know how hard it can be. Glad you seem to be living well in spite of it!

Answer to question: I'm not sure really. I like for a date to go well, but if one doesn't, I tend to more analyze what *I* did or may have done "wrong" than what my date did.

my question: would you date someone totally opposite of you? i.e. if you're shy, they're outgoing, etc.

Yes, because I think that God would bring the best out of you both to counter-balance those differences

Would you date someone who suffers from depression?

Of course Id date someone opposite of me. Opposites attract do they not...

would you ever try online dating?

Ive actually done it and not opposed to it. It's 2005 why limit to who you may meet to only those in your immediate area? maybe the best girl for me lives a few states away! Im not that bound up in New Hampshire that I would not be willing to travel and/ or relocate. I will definitely never ever take interest in anyone outside the country though! That is too much headache.

Will you wait for what you believe to be the one person who is meant for you by God, or will you just find someone you like and that is good enough?

if i find someone i like i will date him, i wont know if hes the one God wants for me otherwise

Would you have sex before marriage if thats what your partner wanted?

Of course, but we wouldn't get married as such if we did. The mother of my child will not have had sex with me outside of marriage.

To the other question: sure, in fact, I think it is better to find someone less than your ideal and to build her up molding her into the woman you want her to be. Both should be interdependent and self-aware so as to fill in the gaps.

Would you date someone who had cats? (I wouldn't, btw..)

HaloRoundMyHead said:

Would you date someone who had cats? (I wouldn't, btw..)

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See, I LOVE animals but my problem with animals ESPECIALLY cats is that I am VERY allergic to them . SO, I will have to say no BUT if there was a way that I could not be allergic to them then I would have NO problem with dating a guy who has a cat.


Would you date someone who is SPORTS OBSESSED?

Sure I like some cats. My neighboor has a cat that is my buddy. He likes me to rub his head. Whenever I walk by he put his head up and waits for me to rub it, right behind the ears. Sensitive 1 beat me to this 1.


Sports obsessed? I would find that odd for a lady but if that is her thing then I will make it my thing too insomuch that we could enjoy it together anyways.

Do you like people more the less they like you?

Croc said:

Do you like people more the less they like you?

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No, I think that's a game, and I don't play games.

Picking up BeautyForAshes' question: Would you date a woman who made more money than you? Or for the women, would you date a guy who made less than you?

Jenster said:

Picking up BeautyForAshes' question: Would you date a woman who made more money than you? Or for the women, would you date a guy who made less than you?

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Possibly. If we share similar views about money (such as living within ones' means and realizing that there are many kinds of wealth.)



What hobby/interest would you most like to share with your ideal date? (Horseback riding, appreciation of art, movie trivia etc.)

Prolly ... playing music together or reading and talking about what we've read.

Would you date someone who is different from you in social situations -- like your s.o. loves to hang out with people, while you'd rather stay at home (or the reverse)?

Jenster said:

Would you date someone who is different from you in social situations -- like your s.o. loves to hang out with people, while you'd rather stay at home (or the reverse)?

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Possibly, but somebody who is too different in too many aspects would likely not last very long with anybody. We need some differences to keep our interest up, but too much can cause seperation. It depends on the totality of the situation.


What is the most beautiful place you have seen lately?

Jenster said:

Would you date someone who is different from you in social situations -- like your s.o. loves to hang out with people, while you'd rather stay at home (or the reverse)?

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I probably would. I think that in some ways you have to be similar and in some ways you definitely have to be different. The key I believe in always compromise in a relationship... so if the person I was dating was opposite in relation to social situations as long as they were willing to compromise I would be ok with pursuing a relationship with them.

Now my question...What is the greatest physical distance over which you would ever consider dating someone?

silentpoet said:

What is the most beautiful place you have seen lately?

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No Question - a place called Antelope Canyon near Page Arizona... it was INCREDIBLE!



As for my question... see above...

If they live on another continant or somewhere outside the USA!

u didnt ask a question

Would you date someone who didnt wnat to kiss until marriage?