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Recent content by wisdom- needed233

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    Getting divorced

    Thank you all for your replies. I am doing well sleeping good, eating normal again, doing yoga and Pilates at the gym, working, going to church and spending time with family and friends a lot. Its been three weeks since I have talked to him on the phone and I'm doing really well now thanks to God.
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    Getting divorced

    Hi thank you for your response. We are still legally married. I have not finished the divorce paperwork, we had filed jointly but now that I been getting closer to God I feel like it's wrong of me to divorce him, so I haven't finished the paperwork, hence the court has not divorced us, he kept...
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    Getting divorced

    I have already moved to my parents house for three months,he won't take me back he says we have to finish the divorce. He has an online Christian dating profile up already. He still would like to keep talking to me but he says only as friends.
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    Getting divorced

    We met in an online Christian chat room I was 17, he was 20. We talked daily for three years, then we dated in person for two, and we're married for five years. He had a very bad relationship with his dad, his dad was always an angry man and verbally abusive to him. He was taken out of school...
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    Biblical grounds for divorce

    When the Bible says the only cause for a Biblical divorce is fornication... what does that mean? Thank you.
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    Need advice please

    He is expecting me to pay it while we are going through the divorce which is 3 more months then once the court day and we are divorced. He says he will pay it and if he still doesn't have a job his family will help him and refinance it in his name. But that is just taking his word for it I...
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    Need advice please

    He doesn't want to sell the truck or refinance it.
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    Need advice please

    He doesn't want to sell the truck or refinance it in his name.
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    Need advice please

    We filed for a divorce three weeks ago. Currently husband is unemployed. .. I work part time waitressing. I am living in a separate bedroom but in his mom's house. We have one truck in both of our names which we financed. He is wanting to keep the truck but wants me to make the payments...
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    Decisions

    We filed for divorce like two weeks ago. He is unemployed. I'm only working part time as a waitress I got laid off from my full time job. We are staying at his mom's house. Do I go to CA now to live with my parents and start working out there and not go to the court day? Do I stick around...
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    Going through a divorce

    My husband and I are going through a divorce. He does not have a job and I just have a part time job. We are living at my mother in laws house. I am in Wisconsin right now and after four months that the divorce is finalized I want to move back to California with my family To live and go back...
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    sad and disappointed

    I had found out that he only has a sixth grade education after we were married so his lack of education causes him trouble at jobs. His spelling he says is terrible and he isn't good at handling stress or confrontation. We filed for a divorce on Wednesday I lost a lot of sleep and wasn't...
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    sad and disappointed

    I have been married for five years this summer. I'm 27 next month and my husband is 29. We are staying with in laws right now my husband just yesterday got a part time job as security but for the past year and two months has been without a full time job. I'm working one full time job and a...