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Need advice please

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We filed for a divorce three weeks ago. Currently husband is unemployed. .. I work part time waitressing. I am living in a separate bedroom but in his mom's house. We have one truck in both of our names which we financed. He is wanting to keep the truck but wants me to make the payments until the divorce is finalized ... In Wisconsin you file and then 4 months later is the court day. I would like to pick up my things and get in my car back to CA with my family and start over get a job and go back to school.... but I don't want to ruin my credit and worry about them coming after me for the truck payment if he doesn't pay the payments.
 
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then you need to talk to your lawyer about that. If he can't pay for the truck - since he has no job - is he expecting you too?
He is expecting me to pay it while we are going through the divorce which is 3 more months then once the court day and we are divorced. He says he will pay it and if he still doesn't have a job his family will help him and refinance it in his name. But that is just taking his word for it I can't ruin credit I'm not sure what to do.
 
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