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Recent content by WEBBGURL

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    Sinusitis

    I do. It's a totally bummer. I can't seem to keep a decent exercise routine because of it.:doh:
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    Neil med Ruined my day!

    I have had that issue in the past. Maybe the water was too warm or not warm enough. My ENT says that lukewarm is best. If the water is too warm, you can dry out your cavities even more. You may have an upper respiratory infection requiring antibiotics. Allergies can be such a pain.:groupray:
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    Autism ADHD and ethnic diversity?

    Interesting theory. I guess there are not too many studies trying to determine if certain ethnicities have higher rates of ASP/ADHD OR ADD. Could be looked into more. I have sickle cell trait, and at least one of my children have it. It is basically found in African Americans more than Europeans...
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    The Blind leading the Blind?

    I have suffered with panic and agoraphobia since I was 14, but in different intensities. My son, who is 19, has appeared to suffer with panic with physical pain as well. We have been trying to get him some help, but lately I have been having some relaspes myself and he has been leaning on me...
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    Social phobia, hypersensitive to criticism, etc.

    So, if you think about it either decision is going to be somewhat painful. I had a relative whom people did not like because "she tries to be friends to everyone." Okay, what do we learn? you cannot please everyone all the time. I know we want to, but it's impossible. So, if you don't want the...
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    need help or advise of winning the heart and trust back from my wife.

    I cannot believe how much these post here mirror what I experienced with my own husband. It's amazing how we don't miss our good thing until it's almost gone. Please don't be a Bugaboo. Give her space. She is trying digest it all. Remember, it was your own selfishness that caused this mess. I...
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    Is it normal to want to die during marriage problems?

    I am so sorry to hear about the pain you are going through. It seems that some of us have been loved so little in the beginning of life that when storms come later on we don't have the strength to stand up. I suggest that you start building your self esteem up in Christ. I know what if feels to...
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    Problems with 19 year old son

    My husband and I are at our wits' end with our 19 year old son. We have spent the last several years and countless dollars trying to get him help. He is medicated for ADHD and also has issues with anxiety. We have been compassionate with him as much as possible, but he will not work with us. He...
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    Do people think that you are in your 30's?....

    I think that people expect the mid 30's to 40's to look old and beaten down. I get compliments and second glances all the time although I don't try to dress or act provocatively. I hate it when people start acting as if we are all "too old" now to enjoy life. I find it's usually others in my age...
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    40....too late to start again?

    I don't think any of us are ready for the boneyard yet. We have way too much to offer. And by the looks of some of the 20 year olds out there...all they seem to have is youth. They are careless and selfish. I wouldn't trade what I thought I knew then for the wisdom I have now.
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    life regrets

    I wish I pursued my dreams to sing earlier. The only places I have sung lately are at home.
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    Agoraphobia And Church

    Thanks. I have been believing for my deliverance as well as working on my issues lately.:pray:
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    Avoiding

    hi M. sometimes people just don't understand. How can they when they are "normal." Although i am not bipolar, I have had several issues in the area of mental health, and my heart goes out to you. My mother couldn't understand, and being a person of color just made it more difficult for me. The...
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    son caught having porn problem

    First of all, I would like to say that it is wonderful that your son came clean to you. Please take the necessary precautions to protect your son and the rest of your family from this. I don't care what people say. Porn is a demon. It almost destroyed my whole family. It started with my husband...
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    Agoraphobia And Church

    Hi all. Thanks for all your thoughtful and prayerful comments. I keep praying about getting there for my kids, and someday I will.