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Recent content by vesperluna

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    Bestfriend sleeping with boyfriend?

    My bestfriend, who is a Christian, has been dating her boyfriend, who is also my friend and a Christian, for a few months now. Tonight my cousin told me that a few weeks ago my best friend had told her (my cousin) that she and her boyfriend were sleeping together. She then apparently told my...
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    Problem with my Bible study leader

    I have been meeting up with a girl from my church (who is a few years older than me) for a couple of years now. We meet somewhere for coffee, one on one bible study, and for her to disciple me and see how I'm going (just in life in general). I have always liked our bible studies, and we get...
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    Reccommend scary movies?

    Thanks! :)
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    Dating: How to Turn Down Non-Christians??

    Thankyou for your thoughtful words, and I fully agree with you on prayer :) But I think you're simplifying God by simply saying that He is love. He certainly is, but he is far more complex- for more than we could possibly comprehend. So to base a decision on the fact that God is love, would be...
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    Reccommend scary movies?

    Having a scary movie night with some friends soon, and would love suggestions! I want movies that are actually scary- not just slasher movies with lots of blood and gore!! haha :) Looove psychological thrillers and such, but open to any suggestions! Thanks :)
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    Dating: How to Turn Down Non-Christians??

    This is true I guess...hadn't really thought of it that way. My thinking was just that it might be helpful to invite him to church or some other church situation where he would hear the gospel, such as a university Christian meeting or bible study. Because doesn't he deserve the chance at a...
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    How often do you wear makeup?

    Like pretty much every day. At least when I'm going out. I hate it though, really wish I was brave enough to go out without it :( I will usually wear liquid and powder foundation, lip balm, blusher and mascara. So not a lot, and I certianly don't cake it on (most people don't notice I wear it...
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    What type of Bible to use?

    Hi, sorry I didn't read all the thread, everything was getting a bit heated! lol Just wanted to say that it's really a personal decision. It can often be helpful to compare bibles as well when doing a bible study or some bible reading on your own. If you Google search in images 'English Bible...
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    Newbie

    So I'm new to this site and never never written a blog before in my life... I'm really only avoiding studying for exams at the moment because I'm not well. But have found this website different to what I expected, so I might stay around for a bit... :) So I guess I'll start by sharing a...
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    Dating: How to Turn Down Non-Christians??

    Thankyou :) I hadn't thought of it that way, very helpful! And I also hadn't thought about being careful about my behaviour like that...I think I often give the wrong impression without realising it. I spose I will have to work hard on that. Thanks again! Ps. I like your tag-line thing about...
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    Venting and need someone to talk to...

    You know what's amazing? That despite being the selfish, ignorant, hateful and sinful people we are, Jesus still died for us. You know, I've been through times in my life where I felt like this. I became a Christian, it was good for a while, but then everything just downhill. I felt like I...
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    Dating: How to Turn Down Non-Christians??

    I often get asked out by non-Christians, and never know how to turn them down lovingly. Any advice, tips or experience? And just to clarify if I sound cruel: you may not agree with my decision, but I wont date non-Christians. This is because I don't think you should date somebody who you can't...
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    Having difficulties... severe guilt

    I agree with Heron- to me, it sounds like your problem here is fear, whether that be fear for your own or your husband's faithfulness. Thinking about someone whilst doing your hair is certainly not a sin! If the Bible does not say it's sinful, then it isn't :) So your guilt is unnecessary...