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Recent content by urwill4me

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    suicide

    happy new year everyone i have a close christian friend who just lost someone she went to school with to suicide. shes upset and im trying to find some christian advice or scripture to help her get through this. she wasnt very close to her friend, but they knew eachother for a long time...
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    is it right to request this of God?

    God loves me. i dont believe he would allow my heart to be so misguided that it would lead to the destruction of our relationship, our friendship. thats not God. remember ive been asking him to heal my heart of these feelings if there not his will for me. God preforms works in all our lives...
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    is it right to request this of God?

    i totally agree with you. Gods will is my highest priority. in philippians 4:6 it says "be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be known to God." and in psalms 37:4 it says "delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you...
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    is it right to request this of God?

    hi all. im jay. im seeking opinions, advice, and prayer. first a little of my sitution: im a christian and ive fallen in love with my christian best friend. im 27 and shes 23 and we are both single. i recently confessed to her that i have feelings for her, but she dosent feel the same. she...
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    i finally told her

    hi everyone - some of u might remember my troubles and prayer requests from this thread and this one. to make a long story short...i just told my best friend that i have feelings for her. ive had them for a long time, but was afraid to tell her. im very afraid for our future. please pray for us...
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    relationship HELP

    thanx for your post. i posted somewhere here about my privious relationship. believe me im over analyxing every part of who she is. i want one love for the rest of my life. ive had long enough to look at this objectively. she hasnt been in love since high school, so not easily at all. she...
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    relationship HELP

    ;) sorry i can see this topic is very ongoing. lately i feel like im living a soap opera or dawsons creek episode. if u wanna be nosy its ok. thx for you prayers.
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    relationship HELP

    well i couldnt bring myself to do it, again. i really didnt have any time alone with her; thats the life af a single person in there 20s in a small town. i (we) have a large group of friends, mostly christians, and most nights everyone is looking for a place to hang out. i live alone in my...
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    relationship HELP

    thank you all! im telling her tonite. im going to keep it un-complicated. just tell her i like her. im scared to death. ill let u all know how it went before bed. god bless, jason
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    relationship HELP

    as i said before, i am without anyone to council me about this. i appreciate your warning and am praying about it. thank you. i do feel guilty for feeling this way. but ive prayed every day for God to take this away if it was wrong or not his will. the last thing i need is to fall in love...
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    relationship HELP

    hi everyone things are getting intense. im considering telling her my feelings this weekend. her parents are going away and shes invited me over friday and satruday evening. im scared to death and i have no idea what im going to say, but after how well my week with her has been, i have this...
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    relationship HELP

    thank you everyoe for your kind words. God is keeping me positive and i am praying and waiting on him. erika and i are going for lunch today. i know she desires a relationship and is struggling and praying for God to provide. i pray he will open her eyes to me and give me corage to declare...
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    relationship HELP

    hi everyone. my name is jason and im a 26 year old christian from canada. this looks like a really great place. anyway my prayer request is not life or death, but its a serious problem i need guidence and advice with. i have this female friend that im very close with. i would go as far as to...