• Starting today August 7th, 2024, in order to post in the Married Couples, Courting Couples, or Singles forums, you will not be allowed to post if you have your Marital status designated as private. Announcements will be made in the respective forums as well but please note that if yours is currently listed as Private, you will need to submit a ticket in the Support Area to have yours changed.

  • CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.
  • We hope the site problems here are now solved, however, if you still have any issues, please start a ticket in Contact Us

Recent content by SumTinWong

  1. SumTinWong

    Are You High, Low or Level? (5)

    Tired but calm.
  2. SumTinWong

    Are You High, Low or Level? (5)

    In btween I guess. SPent seven days in the psych ward, which helped quite a bit.
  3. SumTinWong

    Anyone remember UncleBud?

    Spent from 7/26 - 8/2 in the Psych ward. Don't feel 100% but feel better thn I did. Have court today, pray for me please.
  4. SumTinWong

    My problem is that I run away too much...

    I have run my whole life and I don't know why. All I know is I have hit a wall from my running.
  5. SumTinWong

    what are you feeling right now? (2)

    I am very low at the moment. I feel as if I will never be out of "this" again. That chain that is attached to the thousand pound weight that sinks me into the middle of the ocean is thick with the rust from my tears and my blood. All I can see is fear. i cannot see good, and that scares me...
  6. SumTinWong

    Anyone remember UncleBud?

    I have not lived a very Godily life, as nobody here has I am sure. But for years i was not a good father, husband, friend, son, citizen etc.... I hurt everyone I have ever known in one way or another. Too much to explain here but at this point right now, I want to live, but struggle.
  7. SumTinWong

    Anyone remember UncleBud?

    Ever have trouble finding the courage to keep breathing in and out? To keep hanging in? I am at the point in my life right now where I am afraid I wont see tomorrow.
  8. SumTinWong

    Anyone remember UncleBud?

    Please tell me i sent them back. I will awful if I didn't.
  9. SumTinWong

    Are You High, Low or Level? (5)

    I am very low at the moment. I feel as if I will never be out of "this" again. That chain that is attached to the thousand pound weight that sinks me into the middle of the ocean is thick with the rust from my tears and my blood. All I can see is fear. i cannot see good, and that scares me...
  10. SumTinWong

    trying to live with bp and the distruction i caused

    Many people in my life hate me because of what i have done to them and there is nothing I can do to change how they feel. I can try and make amends and say i sorry but in the end once I have made the effort it is on them to heal. I am bp and have bpd and in my life I think my choices were...
  11. SumTinWong

    Type of therapy and abandonment feelings

    I have abandonment issues and just end up having to ride them out. I tend to not get myself into any situations to be involved with people because of it really. I guess my best advice would be to stop and breath. It helps me. Just stop. Breath in breath out and keep doing that till it goes away...
  12. SumTinWong

    One Thing Your Thankful For (2)

    I got a letter back from VESID today and have an appointment with them to see if I qualify for help.
  13. SumTinWong

    Are You High, Low or Level? (5)

    A bit on the high side of level today for me. (Hi I am Bud by the way). But I started taking more meds so maybe that is a reason. Had a restless night, hard to sleep, feeling trepidations about the rest of the day
  14. SumTinWong

    Support Groups

    As Madison said, NAMI (NAMI: National Alliance on Mental Illness - Mental Health Support, Education and Advocacy) has places pretty much everywhere
  15. SumTinWong

    Bipolar and BPD for me . . .

    Thanks, both of you.