• Starting today August 7th, 2024, in order to post in the Married Couples, Courting Couples, or Singles forums, you will not be allowed to post if you have your Marital status designated as private. Announcements will be made in the respective forums as well but please note that if yours is currently listed as Private, you will need to submit a ticket in the Support Area to have yours changed.

Recent content by Sugarjay

  1. S

    Dating after marriage has ended?

    I think that if the marriage was broken in biblical terms (adultry, unbeliver leaving) and the legal divorce is imenent then dating is ok as in God's eyes (the only one's that really matter) already see's you as divorced
  2. S

    Filed for Divorce

    You are in my prayers mimi4him. God be with you in this trying time.
  3. S

    Should me and my wife move back in together?

    My interpretation is when the Bible was written, women were not expected to work but work on raising a family. Things have changed and I am not sure how to answer this now. I don't think God wanted women to be in the workforce but that is my opinion.
  4. S

    Seperated & He's Found Someone Else

    Lfoxx, Do you want him back or are you just mourning the loss of him because he has another woman? Sometimes we feel we lost that security blanket once the other person gets another mate. You left for a reason and the fact you "think" he is the man you always wanted does not mean you were...
  5. S

    caught him with her

    Adultry is grounds for divorce and as caring and undrstand as you have been I think you have suffered enough and given to many chances to someone that didn' deserve them. ! time ok, 2 times, doubt it, more than 2 FORGET IT!!!! File, move on with your life as God has greater things planned for...
  6. S

    Have any of you agreed to divorce even

    If he is making these decisions with his pastor then I would have to say his pastor lost his walk with God because he id def. giving the WRONG advise. Take care of yourself. Move on with your life and stop worrying about him and what he is doing. If he see's you have moved on w/o him and gets...
  7. S

    Question - After Divorce

    I believe it depends on the circomstances. Like in my case i feel I am free to date whoever I want. My legal (man's law) divorce is not final for about 3 months but my ex has stated she is laready in elations with another man. She has already dovorced me emotionaly and physically so I feel...
  8. S

    I came home today and he's gone

    tryingtobe, You mentioned how God can do this to you. I do not think God did this. There is something going on in your husbands head and he is probably being tempted by the evil one. Were there any signs of this happening? Did you have a fight. What are you in a new area for. Could he be...
  9. S

    He told me to get out of his lilfe

    Hang in there cbja, I know it is hard to have hope in our situations. Just when you think you cannot handle it anymore, give it to God. He will provide relief for you. Try to stop thinking so much about your marriage and start thinking more about you. Realize you have no control over your...
  10. S

    He told me to get out of his lilfe

    That is great he seems willing to work on it as he said you sould ask for an extention. I hope everything goes well for you today...
  11. S

    Update prayer request

    I am praying for you AFT, I hope you are doing well. Trust in God our Fater Gos Bless
  12. S

    Have any of you agreed to divorce even

    Yes, I have, we both filed a joint petition for divorce a week ago. What happned in the end is yet TBD. SHe has admitted commiting adultry (she has a boyfriend now) so therfore I feel I have biblical grounds for jointly agreeing to the divorce. I do still love her and will choose to do so...
  13. S

    My wife has moved out (my story in short) Prayers Needed

    Well I had good news today but later my wife came over and told me she is seeing another man. Man does that hurt. I assume this is the reason she left.. THey have been daing since early to mid July. She moved out of the house on Jusy 1st and dropped the bomb on me May 18th. God, it is your...
  14. S

    My wife has moved out (my story in short) Prayers Needed

    WOOOOOO HOOOOOOO, the judge agreed to our temporary marital settlement agreement. It will be placed into order tomorrow. THis is a huge weight lifted off my shoulders. Now we just have to wait 4 months until the D is final. I do still hope we can reconcile but I am realistic and do not see this...
  15. S

    A little honesty that may be shocking to many.

    lavenderskies, I must say the fact you made it through all those trials and are were you are today gives me great hope. I was deeply touched by your story and cried for what you had to endure. I am so happy God has blessed you with your wonderful husband and 5 children.