Filed for Divorce

[mimi4him]

HI all , I havent been on in a while been sorting things out . I filed for divorce Monday. I feel relieved and sad all at the same time. I know I did the right thing but I still wish it hadnt come to that.
MY husband soon to be ex has charged up over $17,000 in new debt . One is with zales jewelry store $1988.00 and a furniture store almost $3,ooo. So im assuming he has asked this new person to marry him and they have already started setting up house.
I have asked him and he says its none of my business.
He is going to be served sometime next week . IM nervous because I agreed to wait till end of October to file( his wanting why ??? ) but when I did a credit check on him and found all the new debt ( all new accounts he has opened up using house address and phone #)
I got mad and scared that he was ruining my credit also( there is no way we can afford all this new debt)
Anyway I would like you all to please pray that he will not get mad and try and be ugly about the divorce .
He has already said i could have the house and everything in it , but who knows when he gets served what he will think.
thanks all . this site has been a blessing , just knowing I have others to talk to and not worry about what they think of me is a great blessing.
blessings
carol

 

[mimi4him]

HI all , I havent been on in a while been sorting things out . I filed for divorce Monday. I feel relieved and sad all at the same time. I know I did the right thing but I still wish it hadnt come to that.
MY husband soon to be ex has charged up over $17,000 in new debt . One is with zales jewelry store $1988.00 and a furniture store almost $3,ooo. So im assuming he has asked this new person to marry him and they have already started setting up house.
I have asked him and he says its none of my business.
He is going to be served sometime next week . IM nervous because I agreed to wait till end of October to file( his wanting why ??? ) but when I did a credit check on him and found all the new debt ( all new accounts he has opened up using house address and phone #)
I got mad and scared that he was ruining my credit also( there is no way we can afford all this new debt)
Anyway I would like you all to please pray that he will not get mad and try and be ugly about the divorce .
He has already said i could have the house and everything in it , but who knows when he gets served what he will think.
thanks all . this site has been a blessing , just knowing I have others to talk to and not worry about what they think of me is a great blessing.
blessings
carol

me again . I just called the apartments that he lives at and He doesnt live there anymore . So I was right he has moved in with her. Ok so now Im not going to worry about what he says about me filing early.
Im just really MAD!!!!! right now .

 

[kanga22]

How awful. You are in my prayers.

Lord give mimi4him a covering against the powers of evil that exist in her husband's life. Keep the words and actions of Satan away from her. Give her the strength, power, wisdom, peace, and comfort in You that she needs right now. In Jesus name I pray, Amen.

Jesus is your strength right now. Know that He is right there with you. Hold onto Him tightly. He will lead your path.

You are doing the right thing. You need to protect yourself an your credit. Be good to yourself. Only allow good thoughts. Hang onto Jesus and know that you are awesome!

 

[Sugarjay]

You are in my prayers mimi4him. God be with you in this trying time.

 

[trojan2000]

Lifting you up in prayer too!

 

[Deborah6763]

You stay strong. God wants only good for you, not evil.

the anger will carry you for a while, but do you have support in place to help you get through this?

Blessings to you!

 

[madison1101]

God is with you through this. When I went through my divorce, my best friend gave me Jeremiah 29:11. I memorized it, and had it plastered all over my apartment to remind me when I was really down, that God has plans that are for good for me.

Hugs,
Trish

 

[mimi4him]

HI all , I havent been on in a while been sorting things out . I filed for divorce Monday. I feel relieved and sad all at the same time. I know I did the right thing but I still wish it hadnt come to that.
MY husband soon to be ex has charged up over $17,000 in new debt . One is with zales jewelry store $1988.00 and a furniture store almost $3,ooo. So im assuming he has asked this new person to marry him and they have already started setting up house.
I have asked him and he says its none of my business.
He is going to be served sometime next week . IM nervous because I agreed to wait till end of October to file( his wanting why ??? ) but when I did a credit check on him and found all the new debt ( all new accounts he has opened up using house address and phone #)
I got mad and scared that he was ruining my credit also( there is no way we can afford all this new debt)
Anyway I would like you all to please pray that he will not get mad and try and be ugly about the divorce .
He has already said i could have the house and everything in it , but who knows when he gets served what he will think.
thanks all . this site has been a blessing , just knowing I have others to talk to and not worry about what they think of me is a great blessing.
blessings
carol

thanks all. I do have good support , my sister , sister-in-law and believe it or not ex sister-in-law. and of course my kids who are 22 and 26 . And all the people I keep their kids for. Not to mention neighbors. God has blessed me richly with precious ones in my life.

I did talk to him yesterday and asked him if he was happy and he said he didnt know what he was. He is so lost and looking for something to fill the emptiness he has , that we all know only God can .
It is sad . At times Im so mad at him and hurt and other times i feel so sad for him .
I know I will be ok and that it will all just take time and I will have good and bad days for awhile .
Jeremiah 29:11 is a great verse and I stand on it.
That was my verse for my devotional last night. I was so upset after talking to him yesterday that i spent rest of day crying on and off. Before I read my devotional I prayed and told God I needed a word from him that I was going to be ok and that one day all the hurt , anger , embarrassment i feel will be removed .
then i opened my book and there it was . Praise God !!!
He is watching over me , and I know at times He is carrying me. Amen!!!
blessings carol

 

[lavenderskies]

I am praying for you my sister. I have been where you are now. God will see you through this storm. While it may be hard to see right now, remember God is going to do what is best for you. Sometimes we just cannot see it until much later. Praying for you.