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Recent content by Spirithappy

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    Very depressed, girlfriend just dumped me

    Sometimes relationships end because people are feeling different things. Just because you had a great time last weekend doesnt mean she told you everything she was thinking. Sometimes God will end a relationship for HIS purpose. Remember it is HIS will be done not ours. I have been in the same...
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    Men and depression

    Depression is the fastest growing illness in the western world. One of the biggest secret is that many men are depressed and do not know it. It is one of the most common problems! <staff edit> Men are not traditionally aware the suffer from depression. Please know the signs in men. <staff edit>
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    Cousin tells me he is in fact Gay, and also agnostic..

    I truly believe he does believe in God and Christ. I do believe he will return to God. Just be there for him. Be a friend and family to him. Many gays know as much scriptures as christians. There is one way and the best and easiest way for this problem but we a christians are to busy to do...
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    Does God discipline his children, even when they repent?

    Yes you are forgiven by the blood of Jesus. As stated above King David repented but God still took the child. There is a consequence for sin but not all things seen as bad is the cause of sin. Read job ,in the old testement that anything bad was because of sin. Jesus taought this is in not so...
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    Depression and OCD?

    The thoughts are not you. God judges the hearts and those things are not from the heart. You would be surprised on my site how many people have this problem. Just remember God loves you and it is not your heart that is saying these things. When you hear these things give them no power. Everytime...
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    Frozen by anxiety

    When the Bible tells you not to worry it does not mean that you are sinning if you worry. God LOVES you. When the bible tells you not to worry, it means God is with you do not worry. It means that when you do worry remember that you are not alone. It means I have your back NOT that you are...
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    **Dancing is Un Godly??**

    Man judges the outward appearance God judges the heart. The Holy spirit will reveal to you what is right and wrong. This is why there are so many denominations, everyone picks the rules they like and ignore what they do not like. We knows the rules but have little love for others. At this point...
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    i'm so afraid.

    You are not alone and being afraid is normal. Even the men and woman of the bible were always afraid. Jesus constantly told the disciples "Fear not". It is normal to be afriad, God loves you so much and already knows the results of all test and exams. Either way he wil not leave you alone. God...
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    The worst thing is the loneliness

    It is not unusual to have the feeling of abandonment by God. Jonah felt abandoned in the whales belly. Job felt abandoned by God and so did my sister and myself at times. What I have learned is that God purposely abandons us, he does it for our growth. I have heard of so many Christians say I...
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    What does being a ''slave to righteousness" mean?

    Hi, remember Paul says he is using the example of slaves as a worldly example to relate to."Romans 619", He is speaking of how addicted and chainned to the things of sin that we loved in the past. He uses slaves of righteousness as a contrast to slaves to sin. Remember that the whole chapter...
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    **Dancing is Un Godly??**

    I will try to help from my experience. I was a young christian who went to every club in town ,I danced ,loved it and loved the lord. I even took Salsa dancing after work. As I grow closer and closer to the lord my dancing slowly stopped. It was a choice, I did not want to do the club thing...
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    Just Need Some Guidance

    Hi, remember that Moses also had a speech problem. He was slow of speech and it was even called stuttering in the old testament. Exodus 4:10 was about a speech impediment that Moses had and God said "I made your mouth this way". God even gets angry at Moses for useing his speech as an excuse...
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    The worst thing is the loneliness

    I know how you feel and I am sorry for your situation. But there is a bigger problem that you may have and that may be your marriage. Your marriage sounds bad, God may be alerting you to a marriage that is not right. A good friend of mine just went through this and the busy cellphone of her...
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    Is not some of this my fault?

    I agree with Heidi140, Laugh (on the inside)at this woman, do not give her the power. You can also confront the boss about it in front of her. If it continues to bug you I have found that when you bring the situation to light in front of everyone especially the boss, it takes the power away...
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    Horrible year.

    Just remember God loves you and was with you through everything you went through this year and the past. We may not understand why God allowed you to go through all you did but he loves you and was with you through it all.