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Recent content by Softbreeze

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    How do I stop asking the question, " Why was he taken?"

    Thank you for your encouraging words. If helps to know someone walked the walk I am walking now. Thank you Adelyn Woodcock and dudgeon. It helps a lot.
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    Has anyone spent time in a dream with their spouse who passed

    Sometimes I wonder if they are trying to tell us things in our dreams. I do dream about him a lot but just spending time with him.
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    How do I stop asking the question, " Why was he taken?"

    Hi blackribbon, Thats an interesting way to look at it. We are so worry about this life and forget what God holds for us. Thank you for your insight. Its some times hard to see it from Gods perspective. Its just we want to hold dear to us our love ones. I actually forgot Jesus was in his...
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    How do I stop asking the question, " Why was he taken?"

    Thank you Ritz. Its good to know it can change. I thought I could ask that question forever. But its encouraging how you ended with (I ask when) nicely said. Thank again for that :) Words mean a lot and it help carry us a little further a long the way.
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    Single pen pal friends

    Not much more to say but we all need a little encouragement at times. Life isn't always pretty. There are good days and bad days that life brings. God put people in our lives for a reason and it isn't always to make us happy but to make us feel special, wanted and needed. There were times i...
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    Single pen pal friends

    Hi I am looking for single friends who would like to stay in touch and just talk about life and our daily christian walk. Talk about things we enjoy and places we have been, just life. if you want to connect on this site send me a message. Lets start connecting. I just want talk to someone...
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    Its the little things that keep their love alive

    I went on a hike with my kids to the same place that my hubby and I use to go for our nature walks but with my kids my nature walks turned into painful exercises Lol. Still was a beautiful day. That morning we had a favorite dish that my son made. My hubby was the one who taught my son how to...
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    Has anyone spent time in a dream with their spouse who passed

    I always felt so close to him when I had my dreams about him. Its so special because its your private world with your love one. No one can take it away ever :)
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    Its the little things that keep their love alive

    What helps me move on and deal with the loss of my husband are the little things that gives me strength and keep me close to him. I am always reminded by friends, family and my kids the little things that were such a big deal to someone else that my hubby did for them and for me. LIke one of...
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    How do I stop asking the question, " Why was he taken?"

    Thank you 1wachman for your encouraging words. Its always something I haven't excepted that its just Gods plan. Pray that the patience and Gods love will help me lean on him and except it all. Thank you again for you wisdom.
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    Has anyone spent time in a dream with their spouse who passed

    My husband and I was married 25 years and he died of brain cancer and I miss him so much. I asked God to give me a dream so i can spend time with my hubby. That night my prayers were answered. I took a slow walk from the kitchen to the living room while hugging his waist. We felt so in love...
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    A little infrared

    Your black and white pictures are really awesome.
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    Chit Chat (14)

    Thank you for the welcome. Glad to be here :)
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    Chit Chat (14)

    Hi everyone I am new in the 50 age group. I do not feel any older but young at heart :). Just wanted to say hi and hope I can chat with a few :)
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    How do I stop asking the question, " Why was he taken?"

    I know that only Gods knows why my husband was taken but after two years that question is still there. Everyone always say "it's Gods decision and only God knows". I know that but my mind has not excepted that answer. I have tried to just live with that answer but I am still finding it hard...