Recent content by seekingmuch

Like some women have daddy issues and look to guys way older them, maybe you are doing the same thing unconsciously?

First, and this is controversial, but dating sites are for "losers*"...and hookups. *It is not a slight at anyone, but the truth about the sites themselves. They are money grabs. They promise love and rarely deliver. They are filled with scammers (out of the 100 I talked to over 6 months, 95...

So, you like to look at handsome guys. That's fine. But, if you are undressing them...then you are just seeing them as an object. Is that what you are doing? People look at people. It's the lingering and undressing with the eyes is when it becomes an issue. I mostly look at a woman's face, but...

Deep thoughts with Ocasio-Cortez.... "Bread goes in, toast comes out. Where does the bread go?" "My thermos keeps my coffee hot and my iced tea cold. How does it know?" "Trump offered me the ambassadorship to Mars. I was flattered, but I told him I'd rather it be a planet in our solar...

Online dating makes stars out of average and ugly chicks. All the messages they get over-inflates their egos that they are supremely desired and suddenly they think they are as hot as Angelina Jolie and think they deserve Brad Pitt. A woman that is desirable is not on a dating website. She has...

Dude, you should be writing all this in a good book. :)

There has been a theory of intersex bathrooms.

I'm love trans people I know, and am one (too old to transition--I'll answer your questions in private). But, if you have male parts, you use the men's room. If you have female parts, you use the ladies room. It's respect for your fellow human beings.

‘I felt violated’: Female student files civil rights complaint over boy in girls’ locker room I knew this was going to happen eventually.

We will never know who did it. France will pander to the obvious suspects, that have been trashing churches all over France, and come up with some absolute BALONEY of why it burned. They don't want a Holy War in France over it.

And, Trump is shaking in his boots. He probably said the same thing I did, "who the blue haze is Bill Weld?" LOL

I don't think it is renovation, but arson. Apparently, desecrating churches is par for the course in France. Catholic churches have been desecrated across France—and officials don’t know why

Erotic dreams are not a sin. :) A thought that pops into your head isn't a sin either. I'd say what you are experiencing is very common and you shouldn't judge yourself for it. God gave you sexual desires and sexual needs. There is absolutely nothing wrong with masturbation, either. Most women...

Nice thought, but unless you a big donor, they ain't going to listen. One church here locally had a thriving singles ministry and dumped it. One of the big shots claimed the singles voted on ending the singles ministry in favor of small groups (on Sunday morning, no less)--and they didn't want...

After reading so many comments, mostly negative, from other singles 30-up, on websites where singles and the church is discussed, I think my experience is pretty much the norm.