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Recent content by RCF

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    10 Simple Ways To Get Your Wife To Have Sex With You

    Well, you could ask Jesus. He loved us so much that he gave his life. I don't think we were offering him any assistance, even Peter who denied him. I know they loved Him. They were out matched by the Roman Empire. Also, it was God's plan. Nobody could have taken him off the cross except Jesus...
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    Anger Issues

    My son has them. In fact, this is the single most obvious hurdle that he has. At 11, he struggles for control in the face of disappointment, often causing him to loose control and spiral into a meltdown. Thus far, we have worked with traditional behavior modification concepts with some success...
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    Son's Problem at Work

    NIG, I think everyone faces this or similar problems in the workplace. Coworkers always seem to have little competitions to see who is faster, or who can sell the most, or who can sweep the floor the fastest. Every place is different and every worker is unique. Here is what I would...
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    Answer to is it a "Blessing or Curse"

    I love your simplistic response, Sarah. My son answers things very similarly at times. And to him I would say, "If you let it be." It might not be fair, but it is what we have to work with. RCF
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    Restriction

    This is such an interesting statement. As MC Hammer would say, let's "break it down". Humanity as a source of goodness. Well, it is a source of goodness. It is also a source of evil. Not simply are we simplistically oppositional is our society, we have many variances such as strength...
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    dinosaurs and man

    Good googaly moogaly MCA, Your mind is in a constant state of thoughtful flux! I love that you talk about this stuff. I don't have much insight beyond what has already been brought up, but I would like you to know something about turtles. I learned this in herpetology. Turtles are an...
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    Prayers for my daughter

    SquareC, God bless you for being a good and observant parent. Cutting is something I later found that my little brother did as a kid. He said when things got out of his control, cutting gave him a tangible thing that hurt him that he could control and see the source of his pain. Life is...
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    Prayer request

    Leah71 Prayer sent. It's good to have you here. And thanks for fighting for Christians. You sound like someone that really wants to do the right thing. Sometimes it's tough to discern exactly what that is. I will be honest with you, I am a Christian and have had some of the same encounters...
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    prayer for forgiveness

    I will be praying as well. The words of Jesus come to mind, " Father forgive them, for they know not what they do." Learn. Pray. Make a change. We are here for you. DVD
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    Fishing

    Fishing is really the ultimate sport for the outdoor enthusiast. Depending on your preference, it can be a consumptive or non consumptive activity. You can spend as much or as little on equipment and have relatively good levels of success. As many a bumper sticker has stated, many people feel...
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    Could you survive a permanent societal meltdown?

    The t.v. show "Revolution" brings this topic up, and honestly, I don't know how it would work out. Unencumbered from the insane anarchy that could break out, I think I would do ok. If things go as crazy as many doomsday theorists believe, you would have to throw a huge luck factor into the...
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    Butterflies

    Several of them are actually pretty big. I have seen several forms of butterflies from tropical regions can actually grow to be the size of saucers and small plates. In the U.S., I have seen several species that would pretty much cover up the average person's hand. Keep looking, and you will...
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    Alligator Hunting

    Different states do it differently. Each state has laws pertaining to the wildlife contained within and how or if it can be hunted. States like Alabama issue very strict and limited hunting permits, while states like Louisiana have much more liberal seasons and limits.
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    Under attack...

    s4s07, I noticed that you said "my apartment", not "our". Are you spending a lot of time there, alone? Your chemical composition may not care what your conscious moral decisions have declared appropriate, ie, hormones may be nudging you to the thought of porn even though you know it is not...
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    Help - my social problems are destroying my family

    tammylouise, I would encourage you to write them , not only a note, but a letter. They are your family. You may have trouble speaking it, but you have thoroughly explained what your feelings are to us. Use your gift of writing to let them know about you. This is not always possible with every...