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Recent content by pleasehelp55

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    What is a Christians life purpose?

    What is a Christians life purpose? Is it as simple as Glorifying God? Please move the thread if I got it in the wrong section... sorry if I did.
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    How to abstain from kissing???

    What is your definition of maturity? I started my own business when I was 12 years old. I started working with men doing a mans job when I was 13. I have run multiple successful internet business. When I was 15 I owned my own internet electronics store with $160,000 in consignment. I have moved...
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    How to abstain from kissing???

    We need to separate maturity from age. That is true if you judge a persons age by maturity level but if you don't than it is false...I am mature enough... just not old enough. I am mentally an adult... in the sense of I carry myself, act like, make decisions like a young adult would... I am...
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    How to abstain from kissing???

    Are you trying to say that I'm not a man? I beg to differ... How does not being allowed to show your affection translate into the maturity of a relationship? I mean yes I can see what your talking about in sense... but in that sense you could say that a mature relationship would only be one...
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    How to abstain from kissing???

    Ok maybe I should set things straight again lol... I would like some advice on how to honor my parents by not kissing. Not because I think its wrong... because its a sin to disobey my parents. I honestly do not have a problem with kissing. I don't have a problem with making out either. I am...
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    How to abstain from kissing???

    I am 17 years old and still under my parents rules/guidelines for my relationship. I really really want to honor my parents wishes. That means no kissing for a very long time. My girlfriend and I both have very high sex drives though and it just makes it really hard. We have a very mature...
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    What do you do when your gf is bi-polar?

    I am in love with a girl that is my moms bests friends daughter. My mom knows a lot about this girl and how she doesn't treat her mom very well. This girl has a bad past but is changing. I and my mom are both concerned that she wont keep changing though. This girl loves God but to be quite...
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    I need help so bad

    I've already tried to tell her that she needs to get some help from other people besides me... She tried before then but felt like she was being judged for what she did wrong in the past... This stopped her from seeking real help again and I became her main source of help. I think she is trying...
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    I need help so bad

    Have fun??? This has probably been the hardest thing that has ever happened to me... I genuinely cared for this girl on an incredibly intense level... to the point of were it probably wasn't healthy for me. I would die for her in a second. I was really falling in love with her and I felt like...
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    I need help so bad

    She does care for me a lot... but she is just out of a long abusive relationship... I was there when she got out of it and helped her through lots of problems... but she is still in love with that guy even though he was abusive... She is trying to figure out her life right now and doesn't want...
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    I need help so bad

    My almost girlfriend just broke up with me...Its a complicated situation... but we were both falling in love with each other, and she knows its not the right time. I know that it probably isn't the right time either for us to have a relationship but it is so unbelievably hard to face the facts...