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Recent content by PetLuv

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    Dating while a student

    I would say not to date. Going to school is going to change you; maybe a little, maybe a lot, but it will change you. I say wait until you are either out of school or at the very least 7/8ths of the way through.
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    Is being single a blessing?

    Blessing is an interesting word... I would not say that being single is a blessing. Being single is about learning yourself - and by extension God. Learning is not a simple nor a part-time task. Being single is about learning the things you need to know to build the foundation of who you...
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    Mentally Ill Singles

    I'm just going off the first post, but I think that in a large part it really just depends. Me, I am diagnosed with Battered Woman's Syndrome which is a abnormal classification of PTSD. I did not respond well to the medications - most people actually don't do well with meds for PTSD as a...
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    Understanding

    I am not really sure where to post this - but it does involve my parents so I guess here... My father was in the hospital for a month following a stroke and to make a very, very long story short the only option we were left with was to put him in hospice for a few days until we could get...
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    Do you think you can tell when someone likes you?

    No, I typically have no idea. I doubt it happens much though. *shrug*
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    Culture of Christians?

    I've come to expect a lack of knowledge.
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    Strange Wolves?

    None that I can think of as a group in general - but any group can have it's problem people.
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    Official CF Singles New Layout Poll

    I agree with Gracie. Only been on the last couple of days but it feels a bit rough around the edges. Edit. I hit the quote button on gracies post but it didn't show up. :(
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    How to Prepare myself as I walking in the wilderness spirituelly?

    You ask Him this question. You ask Him all your questions. ;)
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    Look But Don't Touch

    I find it odd to be attracted to people just by looks, so I doubt I would be one to engage that kind of rule.
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    Help!!

    Good luck getting to where you need to be.
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    Work

    I'm a full time student, but currently it is summer break for me. This means a break from normal and I hope to be working 20+ hours a week until classes start up again. Once in school study time will depend on how easily classes are for me, but it'll likely be 50 hours a week between work and...
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    Would appreciate your thoughts

    I loathe the devotion to the BMI chart. It holds no merit at all - even the guy who made it said so, yet people follow it like gospel.
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    Victoria Bryant?

    Secret Lane. :)
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    Something is bothering me.

    Wow. No. His responsibility to to himself first. "Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?" His wife needs help, and so does he. Their kids are going to be hurt because of their problems.