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Recent content by Jocklen

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    Evidence against the Theory of evolution. Thread Moved From Teens

    macroevolution contradicts young-earth creationist beliefs
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    Help christianity is stressing me out

    Christianinty shouldn't stress you out...it should set you free.
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    I feel so selfish

    If I were you I would talk with your youth leader about this. If you are confused about what she thinks about your stay then talk to her about what she wants and how you can work it out. Be prepared to accept the worst. It does sound like you have been through a lot. Time does heal a lot of...
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    Joining the Marines

    Hi, I too would also like to join the marines and have thought about it myself. If you don't like the rigorus training then mabye you could do army? Or you could see how far you could push yourself and get through it. That may be more fun than you expected. It may be unbearable for...
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    Ghosts?

    This is one of those things not mentioned specifically in the bible. We just need to trust that God is in control. I know that I have had one of those moments that doesn't seem possible at all. Where you really wonder if you imagined it or there really was something going on above the human...
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    Why did God allow me to be born?

    I do know your feeling that you have and I think some of these might help. Suggestions- -you could move and try and start up something different somewhere else. New job, new relationships with males and females. -you could evalute yourself, find what you like doing and what you are good...
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    Frightened

    Let me get this straight. You are living with your girlfriend and another girl from highschool came over and you had intimacy with her? I am sorry I am so blunt but I do not understand the situation.
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    A question about sin

    Yes, I do believe Judas went to hell because he thought he himself committed the unforgivable sin. He believed in Christ but he didn't think he could forgive him. He pretty much shut out God as his creator and redeemer at the end of his life. Now if someone commits suicide with Christ in their...
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    Dad cheating...forgiveness?

    Solidlyhere, I don't want to forgive my dad not because of the chores he makes me do or because he divorced my mom, I can get over that, no big deal, I've been through worse. My problem with my dad is forgiving him for his sins when he himself does not repent. It would appear that he does...
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    Dad cheating...forgiveness?

    I believe I could forgive my Dad fairly easy if he showed remorse and repentance for what he did. But the fact that he sins and acts like it is not his fault or it is not a big deal really sets me off. If he would have cheated on my mom and asked for repentance instead of leaving her for my...
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    I just can't break it off...am I crazy?

    My pastor talked about this kind of thing last month. #1. Is he/she a member of the opposite sex? In your situation? yes! #2. Is he/she a Christian? In your situation? yes! Now that he passed the requirements, guess what?....You can do whatever you want! If you want to spend the rest of...
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    Did I commit the unforgivable sin?

    WHY WOULD ANYONE BELIEVE IN A GOD THAT DIDN'T GIVE SECOND CHANCES? It is hard to believe but God sees every one of our sins on the same level. It doesn't matter if you thought one bad thought or if you are the world's director for internet pornography! God sees them all the same and each and...
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    Dad cheating...forgiveness?

    11 years ago when I was 4 my dad cheated on my mom, divorced her, and started a new family with my step-mom. Since then he has made no effort to me or anyone else in my family about showing any remorse whatsoever. He walked all over my mom (not literally) and uses my siblings and I to his...
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    I'm 7 months pregnant and my fiance is addicted to Porn

    I am going to give you some blunt advice. Take as much into consideration as you wish. 1.First of all, if your fiance does not feel at fault for what he has done with the pornography at any time then you or someone else has to make him feel at fault in whatever way reasonably possible, or no...
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    I'm 7 months pregnant and my fiance is addicted to Porn

    Deleted for a mispost. My apologies!