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Recent content by Javanwarbler

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    my fiance deleted his facebook account...should I be concerned?

    He does and tells me every day several times! He knows I've gotten some of my insecurities from past relationships with the guy 'looking for better fruit' and then me getting dumped. Thank you for your input here, Siyo! It has helped me gain some needed healthy prospective about it and...
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    my fiance deleted his facebook account...should I be concerned?

    Hopefully no flirting going on but yeah, there could be any reason! The good thing would be him recognizing something like flirting could hurt our relationship
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    my fiance deleted his facebook account...should I be concerned?

    My fiance knows a lot of people and has a lot of friends, both male and female but more female than male. He liked to keep in touch via facebook and email and had a FB account since it started. But partly because of me asking who certain women were that posted to him and then because he said he...
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    What are you working on now?

    i'm knitting some socks for a friend from a group of patterns called 'box of socks' anyone ever heard of it?
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    Can a career in art glorify God?

    I have always wanted to make art as my main career in life! I have wondered the same thing being a christian artist and how it fits into being a christian and its role in the church.
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    Any Knitters?

    I love to knit! I'm working on some socks for a friend right now
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    I've been a member for 4 years and I don't have much to show for it

    Hi Alien! What you wrote here was very compelling to me as well and I will respond in depth to what you said when I have more time! I am in the process of getting married, moving, and starting a new job in a new town. But I very much appreciated what you said and I think you're advice is great...
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    I've been a member for 4 years and I don't have much to show for it

    Thank you so much for your encouraging kind words Jeshu! Just knowing some people care lifts me up a bit!
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    I've been a member for 4 years and I don't have much to show for it

    Hi Tom! Thank you for the link! Truth is I have never felt sure of my salvation 100% because of all my sin that I've continued to do after giving my life to Him. It has always been a source of dispair but the link here has given me some insight into the situation. I can't right now, but I'm...
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    I've been a member for 4 years and I don't have much to show for it

    I will write more to respond to what you said here but it really made me think. Every time I do something for someone else it helps and i do feel better. It's embarrassing because I'm naturally so very selfish and introverted. I made a card for my mom that I think she will appreciate! I will...
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    I've been a member for 4 years and I don't have much to show for it

    Thank you Criada! I really appreciate your encouragement and prayers! Depression has robbed me of so much in life and I will still be a member here as this forum has been a real blessing even though I haven't been that active.
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    I've been a member for 4 years and I don't have much to show for it

    I have been here that long but most of you probably don't even know me. It's really embarrassing. Here is an example of how bad depression can get... I feel so imobilized by it that I can hardly reach out of myself to get more active in a good forum such as this one! I should have been so much...
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    Sleeping my life away

    I have done this most of my adult life....sometimes I have literally gotten so scared of life and people that it's hard to physically move! I have had panic feelings as well as being so depressed that i don't want anyone to have to see my downed mood! and then there is the other issue that I...
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    No reason to live

    Dear Know, I have been scared and wondered if I'm really saved or not. I still struggle with this and I can't get peace about it! I have had a lot happen recently and my depression keeps pulling me down to where I've thought suicide too. I just know that God doesn't want us to give up! God...
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    Looking for INFJ's

    I'm an INFJ :wave: