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Recent content by husbandreallytrying

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    Husband in need of honest opinions and help. At the end of my rope..

    well I have lots of love for her. Im committed to her still. Ive never entertained the D word. Im just hurt by her words. But I still very much love her. I just am praying that the site you suggested will be able to help me make WHATEVER adjustements need to be made to let our marriage glorify...
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    This is so good. They mean well. And I have been in ministry long enough to know that what you are saying is TRUTH!! We attempted to go to counseling twice... and both times...within just an hour or so...it was determined that I was at fault. We hadnt even GOTTEN to what MY grievances were...lol...
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    Husband in need of honest opinions and help. At the end of my rope..

    Well she has had a history of angry outbursts and being "hot headed" or passionate. She would verbally go off leaving damage in her wake....then after her episode is over....she would apologise and then expect me to be totally ok right away. Those outbursts have grown less and less over the...
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    Husband in need of honest opinions and help. At the end of my rope..

    forgive my ignorance..... what is "OP"?
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    Hello everyone. I am here to get some support and give support as a christian Husband and father

    Yeah I need that..because holding her accountable to anything only blows back in my face. No matter how lovingly Ive tried. But Im hoping for a different approach I can use. With a healthy dose of humility and not giving back to her the verbal and emotional abuse she is dishing out.
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    Husband in need of honest opinions and help. At the end of my rope..

    yeah. I got a good link to a possible counselor here already. Gonna try that out. Im still committed as ever. and she has done ALOT to lose that respect I have for her....but LOVE is a choice. If I want to please God I CHOSE to love her. ISnt it supposed to be the same for respect> Being that in...
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    thanks. I have told her I am on her side. And we have come to these impasses before...but this time she seems to have turned a corner....I'm not sure. She wont divorce because she knows that there is no biblical grounds for it... I will try again soon to let her know I am on her team. She...
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    Husband in need of honest opinions and help. At the end of my rope..

    I know...lol.. But she's stopped talking to me this past week. Im willing..but if Im honest Im leary of it because typical christian marriage counseling ends up like.. Man = bad Woman = good but only bad because of the man therefore... man change everything to get rid of womans issues. Im 46...
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    Hello everyone. I am here to get some support and give support as a christian Husband and father

    thank you!! I will definitely contribute to the forum as a whole
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    Hello everyone. I am here to get some support and give support as a christian Husband and father

    WOW!!! Thank you so much. I will definitely check this out. This info alone makes signing up here worth the few minutes I did. Im desperate. I need God to give me holy spirit inspired insight on what Im doing wrong. Cause NOTHING Ive tried has worked so far. And instead of pointing fingers at...
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    Husband in need of honest opinions and help. At the end of my rope..

    Hello, My wife and I have seemed to come to an road block. I don't know what else to do. But Let me start by saying that this may take a little bit because no story occurs in a vacuum. I have been married for a little over 8 years. My wife is 12 years younger than me and came into the...
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    Hello everyone. I am here to get some support and give support as a christian Husband and father

    Hello all, Just introducing myself to the forums here. I am specifically inclined to get some outside opinions from both married men and women. I'm trying to improve/save my marriage and have come to an impass. I want to honestly find out if I am not looking at things correctly ...so I can...