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Recent content by frenchbread101

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    How to help someone who is convinced they are doomed to hell no matter what?

    I'm looking for some advice on how I can help a friend of mine. He has this deep ingrained belief that he is destined for hell and nothing can change it. He learned about hell (I'm guessing in a brutal way, he went to a Lutheran church) in Sunday school when he was very young (3 or 4 years old)...
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    I'm struggling with wrong fantasies

    I'm a single female and have struggled with loneliness. Almost all of my life I have had a skewed view on sex: it is something "dirty" etc. A month ago I had a semi-sexual dream and it was beautiful. It made me see sex in a different way, something wonderful in the bounds of marriage. It made me...
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    Is it a sin for a single Christian to have sexual dreams?

    Exactly. This just makes Him more angry. I'm so upset today.
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    Is it a sin for a single Christian to have sexual dreams?

    I just need to know if God will punish me for this. I keep asking for forgiveness but don't feel clean yet.
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    Is it a sin for a single Christian to have sexual dreams?

    I don't fanatize about sexual stuff in my waking hours. I don't watch sinful movies or listen to secular music either. Any remotely sexual thought I ever get goes immediately to prayer for forgiveness.
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    Is it a sin for a single Christian to have sexual dreams?

    This is so embarrassing but I have no christian mentor to talk to about this. first, I'm female. I had a dream I "made love" with the person I "married". I'm single, never been in a relationship so I don't know why I had this dream. Normally when I have dreams like that I wake up feeling dirty...
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    I Made a Promise to God I Can't Keep - How to Take It Back?

    I rather not talk about it. But after prayer and reflection I feel this incident helped me understand what God wants for my life.
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    :(

    I wish I didn't have mental illness. I think of all the things I could and should be doing with my life as I have legs that work, eyes that see, and ears that hear, but my mind is broken. I could be going on mission trips (feeding the hungry, I could be volunteering at a soup kitchen in my...
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    I Made a Promise to God I Can't Keep - How to Take It Back?

    God's will worked out. Thank you everyone for your help!
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    I Made a Promise to God I Can't Keep - How to Take It Back?

    I'm feeling better now. I prayed for forgiveness. In the heat of the moment my fears got the best of me and I was worried God was going to punish me. Now I feel like what happened was a blessing as I found out some things about the person I didn't know and I don't think it would be a good idea...
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    Would it be wrong to make an Amazon bait box

    O Oh they're in season all right!
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    Would it be wrong to make an Amazon bait box

    I want to make an Amazon bait box for porch package thieves in my area. I will put a Bible inside with a note that asks them to reconsider their stealing. I will place the box on my porch and watch from my window. Would God be ok with this.