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Recent content by FFD

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    blog for those who have never had a dating experience

    Sometimes people also get confused about what exactly dating is. Even after all my experiences and being 26 years old, there are times that i'm not sure what that fine line between friendship and dating is. A long time ago there would be no question. If a male and female arranged to spend time...
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    When is it enough?

    I think that it really is enough. The situation with the brother I find very odd. She is a grown woman and should really have talked to you about things rather than have everything go through her brother first. You're also saying that you are drained emotionally and physically. This could be...
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    what do you do?

    Concentrate and work on your own life first. If you are happy with yourself and I believe if you have a good relationship with God, everything else will follow.
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    As I Lay Dying - Shadows are Sercurity

    From whaty I have heard so far, it's awesome!
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    Would like some feedback

    Believe me, I have been patient and I believe that as a result we have gotten a lot closer. I'm almost positive she knows I like her and for the most part I think she likes me, but like I said before, I have never dealt with a woman like her before and I am just not sure where to take it next...
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    Would like some feedback

    So now I'm a dud? Thanks. :)
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    As I Lay Dying - Shadows are Sercurity

    If you like As I Lay Dying, you might also enjoy, Haste the Day, Bloodlined Calligraphy and Norma Jean.
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    Would like some feedback

    Yeah, we laughed quite a bit about that situation. Turns out the skunk was gone by the time I got there...lol There is no question she enjoys my company and we get along real well and our friendship has progressed quite a bit, but like you said nothing is certain.
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    Maybe a new thought on dating

    Excellent post. That was what a good stream of conciousness is all about. The part about letting God lead you and listening to him is what I'm trying to work on right now. Good stuff.
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    Would like some feedback

    Yes, it does sound like a very similar situation. It is also interesting that you mention showing how I feel rather than telling her. I have slowly been doing that and in some ways I feel like she has as well, but maybe I'm not as good at reading these things. Just not sure where to take it from...
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    As I Lay Dying - Shadows are Sercurity

    I will definitely check it out. I liked "Frail Words Collapse." I used to listen to As I Lay Dying before I ever consciously started listening to Christian music. I was pleasantly surprised to find out these guys are Christian.
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    It seems like alot of Christian bands...

    In my relatively short time listening to Christian music, I have noticed that certain songs contain riffs that are very similar to other riffs contained in music by secular artists. For example, Disciple (a band I do like) in the song, " I Just Know", have certain guitar passages that sound...
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    Kutless: Strong Tower

    I still haven't stopped listening to this CD. It's great from beginning to end, but my favorites on it are, "Arms of Love", "Ready For You", "Word of God Speak" and "Strong Tower." I'd love to find other similar albums that I can enjoy to the same extent.
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    any christian metal music to recommend?

    Haste the Day Extol Norma Jean Disciple Demon Hunter I'm definitely not an expert on Christian metal, but those are some of the bands I've been listening to. I used to be a metal expert though.
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    Did i just mess everything up?

    I do think it would have been okay for you to have given him your number. He didn't come right out and ask for it, but perhaps he thought the way in which he asked was a little more approriate in his mind. The fact that you want to get to know him better as a friend first I think is actually...