Recent content by dvanderdeen

I really think you do not get it either. Good for you that you are strong enough to tell someone about every mistake you made in the past. I am happy for you that you could do that. What we are saying here is that some people are not that strong. Some people make mistakes and hold things...

Exactly my point. All these people are saying it's the lie. The fact that it is about virginity doesn't matter. Yet you are saying right here that the fact it is about virginity does matter. You keep try to say I am wrong, but agree with me in your post. It is the content of the lie that...

Once again you prove my point. You call the others white lies you don't care about. But this one is a big deal and you are going to find out. The content of the lie matters to you. You care she lied about not being a virgin. If it is just the lie, then all lies should matter equally. All of them...

I know I said I was done with this, but I feel one more thing really needs to be said. All of you who are saying it is the lie not the virginity thing are sorry to say full of BS. If the virginity is a non-issue, and it is only the lie, then let's take a look at what that means. Alright we...

Once again you are not using the original word, you are going back to the greek which is still not the original language. You still have not shown me a place where the Bible states that inappropriate contentiea was used in this particular passage as I asked for even if it was the original language which it isn't...

You're right, anyone can read the Bible and give their interpretation of what it says. Which is exactly what you are doing here as you love quoting the condemning verses but ignore the forgiveness verses which others have posted. Jesus himself forgave this woman and stopped people from...

Yes. My wife did do something very much like this. I forgave her, we worked out our issues and have had none since and our relationship is great now. We are both very happy and I would say very blessed in our marriage. I trust her completely and we are very honest with each other now because...

I don't normal post in this forum because I'm not really allowed to anymore, but I couldn't ignore this one. I don't think that anyone has the right to tell someone what they can or cannot do to feel safe in their own home. If a woman doesn't want to live with a man that she doesn't know...

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It's definitely a normal thing to think about an ex. This is a person that meant a lot to you at one point in your life. In most cases, even after a breakup, the things that originally attracted you to that person are still there. As time goes by, the things that caused the problems or issues...

Walking with God is not always an easy thing. My family has been through many struggles as well. Like you, my parents have always felt called to work with those in need. My parents have dedicated their lives to helping people, especially teenagers. This is by far one of the hardest age...

I have to agree with Shinkou o a lot of this issue. I have practiced Tae Kwon Do, Jujitsu and Judo. I've been participating in these martial arts for years and have felt no threat from them to my faith. Likewise, in times when I meditate, I meditate on God. I went to a Christian university...

I've really only read the original post on here, so sorry if I repeat something that's already been said. I have to wonder how deeply the OP is getting to know these men that she is questioning about. Honestly, the attitude that we display in Church, and the conversations we have are going to...

I especially get it all the time in Korea. I am nearing the Korean expiration date for marriage and when they find out that I am not married they do have a tendency to try and set me up with someone.

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