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Recent content by ConfusedJimmy

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    I think that I am in love with 2 men

    An old book can't tell you which person you want to spend many years of your life with. It doesn't particularly sound like either will be brilliant for you, a break wouldn't be a bad thing. I also struggle with "possibly" abusive, you either consider it abuse or you don't.
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    Do any of you smoke?

    I smoke like a chimney.
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    Married man having single female roommate

    That is just not true. People don't cheat on their wives because they don't believe in god. They cheat on their wives because something in their relationship is amiss, they feel unloved , are unfulfilled or a whole host of other reasons. A fear of god might stop the cheating but it wont stop...
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    Married man having single female roommate

    Just be honest, he is a person you know very well, knows you very well and you care about eachother. He will understand your concerns but essentially you are saying that you don't trust that he wont bang the first female he has close contact with. I would be rather insulted.
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    Married man having single female roommate

    You don't trust him. If you did you wouldn't be posting this thread.
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    I need help

    I want advice from real people, who could have been in my situation. I don't trust my minister to consider what is best for me.
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    I need help

    Hi all, my name is James, I am married with 3 children, I am christian. I think I am gay. Last week I got drunk and had sex with a man, the worst part is that it felt right, I enjoyed it and have this urge to keep doing it. I know it would destroy my family but it feels like it is the only...