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Recent content by Cian

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    What do homosexuals think of divorce?

    I'm gay and if I ever marry and the relationship goes sour, I have nothing against getting a divorce. It's as plain and simple as that.
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    Getting Wasted

    Why do I drink? Because it is hella fun. It always acts as a social lubricant for me, it makes socializing easier, especially when meeting new people. I don't know about why other people do it, but for me it is a great thing to do on Friday and Saturday nights. Let's say the night is young...
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    Piercings, tattoos etc...

    That is very true, as soon as I got my eyebrow pierced I thought about what else I should pierce; hopefully next week I'll get my lip pierced and later this summer perhaps my nipples. I prefer piercings because unlike tatoos it is completely pain-free to remove them if you grow tired of them.
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    Would you repent of homosexuality if...

    Absolutely not; any being, supernatural or not, that told me I should repent for acting on what comes natural to myself is not worth being heard. Perhaps I would ask "God" to explain why homosexuality is wrong and why I would need to repent; it would be nice for someone to explain to me why the...
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    Study: Geography Greek to young Americans

    I am not surprised considering in Minnesota one geography course is taken in 8th grade. I must be considered a geographic prodigy since I can locate nearly every country in the world plus or minus a few Pacific and Caribbean Islands. Actually most in this age group do not bother to vote at all...
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    From gay to God

    I still do not understand why some Christians think that homosexuals need to be "healed", or that homosexuality is such an abomination that one needs to be "cured" of it through the power of Christ. Why aren't Christians forming ex-bi/lesbian ministries as well, after all obviously they...
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    Is Homosexuality Wrong from a non Biblical perspective?

    a. With the population of the United States approaching 300 million, global population rocketing skyward, and urban sprawl destroying natural habitats of many species I see nothing wrong with homosexual unions not producing offspring. b. Yes, initially AIDS and other STDs were greatly...
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    FDA speaks out against marijuana legalization.

    I will have to disagree with the FDA's decision to stand against state measures legalizing the medical use of marijuana. The effects of smoking marijuana are much less impairing than alcohol and much less addictive than cigarettes, both of which are legal drugs. Yes, three joints are equivalent...
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    DISCUSSION: How did you decide what political party you chose?

    1) It is what your family/circle of influence encouraged/is? My mother and father are both moderates but vote for different parties; my mother typically votes Democrat, my father typically Republican. Both of my brothers are also moderates who typically vote Democrat. All of my family is...
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    Are you an authoritarian?

    1.7666666666666666 I am also a whining rotter :thumbsup:
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    political compass

    Just tell me where and I will be there!
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    political compass

    My results: Your political compass Economic Left/Right: -4.25 Social Libertarian/Authoritarian: -7.54
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    To Atheists and Others.

    I think this may be just another "go out and preach the good news" rant; maybe his church sermon had mentioned that verse so he felt it would ease his conscious if he preached the "good news" by telling a few non-believers to repent or face eternal damnation.
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    Sorry, here's another one.

    The human body allows for female-female or male-male sex to be just as pleasurable and fulfilling as heterosexual sex.
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    Teens identifying as gay at younger age

    I believe teens identifying as gay at a younger age could potentially save a lot of pain later in life. I do not believe that a teen experimenting with bisexuality is negative in any way; one of my friends just started dating another girl and I have never seen her more excited in my life. I...