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Recent content by cbudc

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    Merry Christmas....42 days left...

    Merry Christmas everyone. I'm at work right now and this kinda sucks but I'm excited cause I only have 42 more days til I'm back in the states. Not too bad of a night though so far. Tomorrow night we're going to cook some steaks at work and hang out. SO that should be ok. It's rough being...
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    Arkansas

    That's what I heard, I'm very disappointed that I'm missing it. Oh well, not too much longer til I'm home.
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    Women: "I Like Big Bellies and I cannot Lie"

    I think it's getting to be like this more so for a lot of people, men and women. I personally would prefer a girl that is nice and soft, still has some kind of figure but it's a lot nicer to hold on to and hug than either skin and bones or a 6 pack. Girls with muscles kinda gross' me out.
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    Arkansas

    Moving back to Cabot in about 45 days from overseas. Can't wait. Just wondering if any of you are from around there?
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    The time has come...

    Good luck, I know exactly how you feel. I know how hard it is to have the one you love whole heartedly just continue to tear you up. I would naturally hope that your marriage can resolve but you can't keep going through this. I will be praying for you. God bless.
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    Not being around Christians is hindering me...

    Yes, at least I do have this place to come to. Getting out of the military is not an optioin for me. Yes I have to be around a bunch of badness but I love being in. I love the feeling I get when I put an airplane in the sky and say, that thing wouldn't be flying without me. I love that, I...
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    Not being around Christians is hindering me...

    I'm in the military. I'm a crew chief (aircraft mechanic) and I'm around a lot of people everyday. 98% of which are not Christians. It's so hard to keep my faith and to focus on the Lord everyday as I'm around people who, cuss, talk about inappropriate things, participate in un-godly...
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    Fear

    Man all I can say is keep praying. I think one thing about you though that you're way overlooking is your impact on people. You're not a burden to other people simply because you go inside a bank to do some business. I think you lack some confidence. I do too. I know how it's hard and...
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    Isn't that just what I should have expected?

    Keep your head up man. I too am going to be lonley and bummed but let's try to be focused and our head and remember what Christmas is really about!!!
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    Peculiar attractions... ?

    Haha, I was waiting to see if anyone would say this. That's me right there. Not except I'm not really big boned I just have a little "cushion" on me. Haha. I don't really have any preferences as far as who I'll date. I've dated different types and it usually just depends on if we click or...
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    Just doing a little thinking today...

    I think you're absolutely right and on more than one occasion I have found myself judging my happiness on materialistic things. I just need to learn to accept everything as it is and be happy with I what I do have. Which like I said I am but you know sometimes you just want something so bad...
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    eHarmony

    Haven't tried it but probably will when I get back to the states. See what this all great website has to offer.
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    Playing Hard To Get...I don't think so!

    I don't think she's hating on you but yeah, like above, are you proud of that? "Ain't no guy ever gonna have a chance with me, I just like to mess with people." That right there is a poor attitude. That is messing with peoples emotions and their hearts. Here they are thinking that they may...
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    confused and scared

    Wow, I'm so sorry for your situation. I don't think God is abandoning you though. Yes you made a mistake, we're all human and as long as you have repented for it then God will forgive. You say you are violent towards each other? Is this physical where you guys are hurting each other or just...
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    Going Crazy Inside!

    See this is where the problem is. Now, I gave my wife the freedom to do a lot of things. Sure I'd let her go out with her friends but it ALWAYS bothered me when she'd go out to the clubs or something. IMO he has every right to be a little upset. Especially if this is a normal occurance, I.E...