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Recent content by bobalone

  1. bobalone

    Can you live without sex?

    With me it has been difficult to say The least. My wife and I had a great sex life. I remember the last time (ShE initiated it)as if it were yesterday and not over 2 years ago. I will live GOD has given the grace to survive. she passed in 2010
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    Question for women

    I have a question does this desire demolish after a hysterectomy? :confused:
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    I need help

    Meanwhile back at the thread. It worked Iquit calling her for a week . Sat AM she texted me and wanted me to come over for a talk. Well, I was greeted with a big hug and kiss and she told me she thought i didn't like her ???????????? WHAT?????????? *-) never the less we are out of the friend...
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    I need help

    here's an update. She seems to be warming up I think GOD has been speaking to her and I am willing to stay as friends if that is what Shen GOD want
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    I need help

    Yes , I have told her how I feel and going to pray more and wait.
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    I need help

    Thanks for the input and prayers:amen: FYI it was over a year before I starded dating her. I think the sit down is what I'm going to do. I am ok with being friends and She keeps his name for the children, I'm fine with her keeping what ever name she wants to use. GOD said "it is not good that...
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    I need help

    Y'all are very helpful Thanks . Please pray for me as I wait upon the LORD to know when and how I should talk to her about moving out of the dreaded "FRIEND ZONE" Heck I know I love her and I think she love me but is "gun shy" because of what what others may think, she said something the other...
  8. bobalone

    Your significant other and his/her past...

    Gently tell him you don't want to hear about his past it's over . i you like the guy go slow .
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    I need help

    OK here is my story. I need advise. I have been widowed for over a year now and for the past 6 months I have been dating a woman that I think would be a great wife. we have a lot in common, we think alike , I have noticed I have been "finishing" her sentences ( at least in my thoughts) She has...
  10. bobalone

    i need your prayers for wisdom

    thanx
  11. bobalone

    i need your prayers for wisdom

    GOD is real Amen!
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    i need your prayers for wisdom

    thanks to you all it means a lot
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    i need your prayers for wisdom

    thank you
  14. bobalone

    i need your prayers for wisdom

    :PI have known a woman for many years at my church, until my wife passed away almost 2 years ago I had never been seeking a wife. I started dating Audrey, strictly as a friend, about four months ago. I find now I have her on my mind a lot more than before. We both have been married before both...
  15. bobalone

    What is in fundamentalism?

    The term fundamental is a basic word that can be applied to any group. the Muslim fundamentalists are only fundamentalists in the realm of Islam. The same can be said for the Fundamental LDS group. Be careful to note some groups use the same terms but apply different meanings. As for...