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Recent content by Bigun

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    Divorce final, but still finding out news

    After the divorce, my ex-wife informs me she is pregnant with another man's baby, but swears it was just one time with that one guy. Now I am finding out from various sources that it was not just that one guy, and that she has slept with several people. I have three prayer requests, first one...
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    This is so hard to say "swinging"

    Without diving into too much detail, I have experience with this. PM me is you wish.
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    No feelings for men

    It's either spit, or swallow something that isn't all that pleasant. Hate to be disgusting, but that's the way it is.
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    I need prayer

    Me and my wife are seperated again... But that's not why I need prayer... I need prayer for me... I need to get back into Church and get right with God again.
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    90% Sure of a divorce

    Sent text messages found on her phone around 3 to 4 AM asking for directions to his house, and a reply from him apologizing for being asleep and hoping she would still come over.
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    90% Sure of a divorce

    I have a high reason to believe that my wife has been unfaithful. We are going to meet a lawyer today, divorce seems inevitable. Pray for me/us.
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    How do you deal with it?

    Thank you guys, I'm taking it day by day.
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    How do you deal with it?

    I kept her locked out of the house by simply removing the battery from the automatic lock. When she came back home the first time she left, I made a note to start using the key myself and have her use the keyfob or keypad to open the door. So by simply removing the battery, she can't come in...
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    How do you deal with it?

    Well, things did not go well tonight. My wife decided she was going out with a friend Saturday evening. I was ok with this, only because we had discussed her going out maybe once a month and not staying out near as late as she was. Well, she has only been back a matter of two weeks, and she is...
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    How do you deal with it?

    :amen:
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    How do you deal with it?

    I believe my wife's issues stem from her father being *completely* controlled by her mother for her entire life. Her mother has been known to be physically and verbally abusive towards him over everything. Her control borderlines psychotic IMHO. And when I spoke to her about giving 10% to the...
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    How do you deal with it?

    Sounds like our wives came from the same gene pool Wayne. :) See, what's odd about Jill's suggestion is that my wife suggested the very same thing. But it seems she has more animosity to me giving money to the church rather than giving it to God. So the question is this: Is it the same as...
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    How do you deal with it?

    It always seems to go somewhat well until I do something with God. This morning she found my tithe check and became livid. She first took the check from me and told me that I wasn't going to give money to the church, I would be better off giving it to someone who actually needed it. Along with...
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    Oooh...So irritated

    It says to submit... not obey. Submit - To yield, resign, or surrender to power, will, or authority; 1913 Webster Obey - To give ear to; to execute the commands of; to yield submission to; to comply with the orders of. Surrendering power and carrying out commands are two different things...
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    How do you deal with it?

    I thought I was the only one dealing with the yelling and the irrational behavior. It's comforting to know other people are dealing with this same issue. *EDIT* No, no kids. I simply am staying with her because when I became a christian, the bible stated that adultry is the only valid reason...
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