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Recent content by bigRedhead

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    How do you handle inappropriate attractions?

    I was kind of on the reciving end (the "crushee"), w/o me having totaly knowlegde of it, I had an idea but was not sure. I saw the signs, but would brush them off being that this lady was almost old enough to be my mom. Then I was talking to her daughter, a freind from our youth group about...
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    A childless adult's relationships with children: Irrelevant to parenting?

    I was not going to post until I read this. I have to agree with ya here on this point. Especially if they are a part of the body of Christ. THat is one of the charges given at the church I attend is that the church is asked to help raise the child, watch out for, and care for. but as for the...
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    Signs a guy likes you

    Lacko beat me to it. It is a prety good sign that they like you B4A. Like I said before (I think) I get tounge tied alot when I am around someone that I like.
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    Signs a guy likes you

    I do that with a drop of the hat. It takes next to nothing for me to start blushing. But yeah good sign.
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    Why so?

    Hey SP I would like to reccomend two other books for you to give a read in the near future that may help you prepare. I know that they have helped me. #1. If only He Knew #2. Preparing for Marriage They use this one at the church I attend for pre-marital counciling BOth of those are GREAT...
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    Kissing 101

    I forget what TV show that came from, but I could not resist posting it. It was hillarious then and still is :D
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    Kissing 101

    Don't come up with his gum afterwords. I have herd of people practicing on their hands, chicken legs, and various other things. But to be honest I think that its just something that will come naturally to you when the time is right. Don't rush it. If you are unconfortable about it, then just...
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    how to get away?

    I would have to say that I agree with OhhJim on this. It would just show some guys that you are willing to be yourself, and not hid behind filters. it would be kind of hard to leave the date if you rode together tho', then you just tell them (like I have heard a number of times) you are a...
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    I'm loved by someone I've never met....

    The term "love" has been twisted so much by our english langauge that none of us really know what the true meaning of the term is anymore. We use it to say "I love that paint you used", or " I love my car", or "I love fish"...ect from my own past, and watching others, they tend to get caught...
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    A Death

    Derek Bro, I am praying for you and Ryans family. I pray that the Peace that goes behond all understading will be placed on each life and heart that Ryan was able to touch with the short time he was here. God Bless you lil Bro.
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    What are your plans for tonight?

    I thought about going out the Funny Bone here where I live tonight. Juff Dunham is performing w/ Walter, Penut, and Jose J`alapino (sp) on a Stick
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    Damaged Goods?

    I tried not to be the one to derail it, and will not go any further than my OP.
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    Stupid Question

    Music in and of itself is neither good nor evil. It is how it is used. Just like the internet. IMO, and in my studies I have found that Music was created to Praise God in the begining. Well satan is the great imitator, so he likes to take the things that were/are made for God and have them...
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    something positive

    let the crazyness begin :clap: Chior stuff for the next two weeks HARD, and then we have out Live drive though Nativity
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    Leaving everything to God?

    Like other have stated here already I would have to say that it depends on the issue that is at hand, and how you are refering to "leaving it to God" If you are refering to just sitting there and "waiting" on God, that is not what the Bible teaches on it. Yes we are to wait on God's timing...