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Recent content by Bigork

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    DIVORCE AND SEPARATION

    Please don't believe that, the passage is not talking about Christ and His church. Is talking about children of God. You and I. Most of the time, we like to select verses of the bible that we like to suit our emotion and thereby justifying our mistakes.
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    DIVORCE AND SEPARATION

    Even if adultery is committed by either of the party where is the place of forgiveness? When we say the Lords prayer "...forgive us our sins and as we forgive those who sinned against us..." Am not saying this because I just want to say it, but am saying it the way I feel it is. God is not...
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    DIVORCE AND SEPARATION

    Universal/denomination and what have you does not and can not over rides God's laws and rules that guides marriage. I think no matter what the situation will be in our marriages, God want us to be in peace with everyone. Even when we are having problems in our homes, it is our responsibility...
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    DIVORCE AND SEPARATION

    I do not think that we should remarried after divorce. Malachi 2:16 says God hate divorce. What God has joined together let no one separate. What about that?
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    DIVORCE AND SEPARATION

    Can a married christian divorce or separated and remarry? Your advice please!
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    Poll- How long did you date/court?

    9 years!
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    How is life fair?

    That why am happy to be here, I seen so many encouragement here. God bless all of you richly. Ok my beloved Fallingupwards, I thank God for yourlife. You are strong inside but is like you did not know this. One thing that we human being did not have power over is "which family are we going...
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    Marriage tips?

    Everyone in your family might have divorced, it does not mean that once you get married you too will follow suit. Is a matter of choice lo. That is if you choose to! The problems we are haven in marriages today are man made. Because if we want to follow God's principle of marriage, we will...
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    Will you still go to hell if you're saved and commit suicide?

    A christian can not and should not commit suicide. Although things might be difficult. Yet our hope must be in the Lord. 2 Corinthians 10:4-5 told us that the weapon of our warfare are not physical and we should bring every thought to the obedient of Christ. Romans also told us what shall...
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    Your Advice Please

    Thanks for your advice LASTOFALL. Your write up is informative.
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    Your Advice Please

    I have so many thing to achieve in life but I don't know how to go about it. Something within me is telling me that God has given me so many things that can make me a great man in life. Of cause I can see it in my dreams, hear it through small still voice etc. I've attended so many seminars...
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    The Phrase 'I am a Christ follower but not a Christian'

    I think the reason why some people use the phrase "FOLLOW CHRIST rather than CHRISTIAN" is because, the word CHRISTIAN is loosing its worth. What did I mean, you will hear a thief calling him/her self a christian. Even the so called men of God most especial in the part of the world that I came...
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    Unequally yoked- please advise!

    I thank God for your faith in Him and you will never regret it. Alright, to your question. We have what we called God's will and our own will. Because we are human not Angle, God allow us to have free will or self will. If Angel was sent on assignment, they have to carry out everything in...
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    Unequally yoked- please advise!

    The bible verse, 1 Corinthians 7 : 12 to 14 is not talking about sisters and brothers that are engage but Paul was addressing the married brethren. However, if you read the passage further, you will see where Paul said, "If the unbeliever live, then brother or sisters that was married to the...
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    Husband and I can't agree

    I thank God for your courage. Amos 3 vs 3 says, "Can two work together except they agree." In a time like this, is prayer that you need. You need to pray more. Pray until something happen. The bible says, the heart of the king is in the Lords hands and He direct them to where ever He want...