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Recent content by Ace99

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    Marrying someone you don't think is attractive?

    I just wanted to share something that maybe relevant, for my past two relationships, one was 12 years younger than me, and the other I am very sad to say was married, I feel the enemy really worked on me because I was really attracted to both of them, both relationships really hurt me, and one...
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    I am a Queen

    I thought it was quite good, found the music was louder than your voices, but Good effort, God bless
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    Has being a Christian made you boring?

    It can sometimes be boring being a christian, a few years ago i would be in the night club leering after girls, getting drunk, having a laugh with the boys but all that is gone where i would be out partying all weekend. 10 0 clock is late for me to be out, i feel so sad in many ways, but ive...
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    Low-Stakes First Dates

    That was very interesting, there is this girl I would like to take out but I'm in a place where I have to take things very slowly because I'm in recovery, so I think I'm just going to ask her if she would like to come for a coffee, so we can get to know each other. Thanks again for putting this...
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    What are you doing for Valentine's Day?

    College Work, that's about it,maybe thinking of my old valentines, and if there maybe one for next year. All in all a pretty sad valentines day, but there's always hope for next year.
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    Maybe lost my last best friend

    God bless you brother, it must be very hard for you, but God knows what you need, I'm hoping he will bring some special people into your life. He has already begun this by directing you to this site, where you can talk among your wonderful brothers and sisters. Who can help you and pray for you...
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    How can I stop "stalking" my ex?

    Prayer and Peace, I know what you mean by stalking I kept texting my ex girlfriend I couldn't let it go, I only recently after three years, have been able to leave it in gods hands, my mind would go crazy, what's she doing, where's she going, who's she seeing, then looking at the time thinking...
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    What's the point?

    Thank you very much, it's so hard I felt so bound by the enemy this morning. I just wanted to die, I know I idolise I have begged God to help me, it's not my fault I don't know where it's come from, I don't want it, I want everything in balance, God first and a wife second if it's his will, like...
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    What's the point?

    Why in the middle of everything, do I feel God taking everything away from me, I asked God to take away my fear of not being in a relationship, and it's nearly all gone, I asked him because of pornography,( in my life before being a christian) to lower my sex drive, for a while so I can be...
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    What's the point?

    Why in the middle of everything, do I feel God taking everything away from me, I asked God to take away my fear of not being in a relationship, and it's nearly all gone, I asked him because of pornography,( in my life before being a christian) to lower my sex drive, for a while so I can be...
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    Someone please pray for me

    Hawisher, try to talking to her, see how things gobut keep praying to God, he will direct you if you seek his will in this,
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    Someone please pray for me

    It's nice you have found someone, hand it over to the father, pray about her, if she is for you, then let god take control, he will bring her to you if she's the one. Praying for you God bless you brother
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    Worldliness / Godliness

    For me if as I believe Jesus did die for our future sins, it is about acknowledge the sins before the father and saying sorry, as in the case of my own father, when i was a child, if I did something wrong I would say sorry and mean it because I knew it was wrong and I didn't want to upset my...
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    Worldliness / Godliness

    A worldly mindset lives for self, and selfish pleasures a godly mindset lives to glorify God, I don't know what to say about those who do not believe that Jesus died for all our sins, I believe it 100 percent, with all my heart.
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    Worldliness / Godliness

    You can't balance out worldliness and Godliness, for example if you sin, you can't weigh that sin and say a half hours praying will make up for it, Jesus died for all your sins, past present and future, all you can do is repent of your sins and keep going with God, praising him for his Grace...