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Recent content by 2Confused

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    So Confused... I don't want to be married anymore?

    Hi Jen, Thank you so much for your encouragment and especially for not judging me, I know I haven't been a Christian wife as I should be... I broke down and gave into my own needs... I have been asking God to help me with this... to take down the barrier I put up and to help me fall back in love...
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    Hugging and being hugged

    yes... I agree 100%... too much on everybody's mind when all we need is some affection, consideration and compassion for one another and each others feelings... it's definitely not about the sex... it's about being there for someone!
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    So Confused... I don't want to be married anymore?

    Thank you so much for your advice, however... here comes the hard part... my counselors were perplexed and couldn't understand it either... He has no idea of the affair... 1st of all most of it was an emotional affair - emailing, chatting once and awhile online and talking on the phone...
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    So Confused... I don't want to be married anymore?

    That is so funny you said all that stuff because I do those things already!!! I have been ballrooming for almost 3 years now... I love it and have begged him to do it with me but he is not interested... so I can't force it upon him... and yes, I go out w/my girlfriends - once and while... I...
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    So Confused... I don't want to be married anymore?

    I just wanted to update my post and let you know that I'm just feeling very guilty here that I want "more" from marriage... I wish I had a partner and someone I could call my better half, and what I struggle with is feeling selfish for wanting something that I can't have, the church and God...
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    Either I'm insane or something is going on

    Hi Jen, I just read the beginning and end of your posts... I have not logged on in a while and have been meaning to write you... but I have been thinking about you and praying for you... I want to tell you that I am very proud of you, it seems as though you have talked this all out w/your...
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    My wife thinks she can't be happy with me

    Jimmy is not at fault here, I can tell as a woman that this man is very calm, kind hearted and trying so hard to see the view from his wife's point of view... good for you Jimmy... not many men would be able to acheive this w/control as you have... I completely agree w/you that she needs to make...
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    So Confused... I don't want to be married anymore?

    Thank you Jen... and Razzelflabben, In my heart I believe God wants me to stay for the children at the moment, that is why I am still here - none of us knows the future except for our Heavenly Father - I have to leave it in his hands and stop worrying. As you know it is so hard to do when you...
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    So Confused... I don't want to be married anymore?

    Everyone seems correct to a certain extent, yes it a viscious circle, I however told my husband this morning, the little times you want to hold my hand or snuggle w/me - I am unresponsive because I built my "wall" so I won't get hurt again... please understand where I am coming from - I don't...
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    So Confused... I don't want to be married anymore?

    Well, I guess what I have to do is not become bitter, which I try desperately to try and do and undo often, of course being human we all get into our moments and frustration and anger seem to give way (Satan of course) and then this morning I read this: Bearing with one another, and forgiving...
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    So Confused... I don't want to be married anymore?

    Jen, It sounds like you have been through a very very tough time in your marriage, I am truly and deeply sorry for you... Are you with someone new, or have you repaired your broken marriage? I am curious to know if you did repair it, how? I however, know for a fact my husband does not have...
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    So Confused... I don't want to be married anymore?

    Thank you Jen and Iambren for all of your imput and advice... I appreciate any advice from my brothers and sisters in Christ, I just wrote you guys a very long response and the sight had me relog in and I lost everything... To make a long story short, I spoke to my husband again on...
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    So Confused... I don't want to be married anymore?

    Thank you so much for your prayers... Yes, I have seen 2 counselors regarding my problem one was a PhD (christian religion) whom I went to once a week... my husband came a few times, but was busy w/work to come often and honestly, I enjoyed seeing her alone so I could cry or talk about the...
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    So Confused... I don't want to be married anymore?

    am a married stay at home mother of 2 currently 36 years of age... I have been married for 11 years now, 3 years ago, I had an affair out of pure desperation - I know I was wrong and not even deserving of forgiveness... I continued my affair on and off for over 3 years as mostly friendship, and...
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    What do I do?

    I did go to therapy and spent lots of money... wasted money... but at least I tried... I didn't get anywhere... in the end my counselor agreed that I was doing everything I needed to do and I was just spinning my wheels... I made sure I went to a real PhD... I prayed relentlessly and found that...