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Recent content by 123flower

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    Is baptism required?

    I still don’t know for sure whether baptism is required for salvation or not. I’ve read a lot on this forum and internet. One says it’s required, the other one says not. Who is right?? I don’t know what to believe anymore and my backstory is a bit complex. I’ve already posted my story last year...
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    Is baptism required?

    I still don’t know for sure whether baptism is required for salvation or not. I’ve read a lot on this forum and internet. One says it’s required, the other one says not. Who is right?? I don’t know what to believe anymore and my backstory is a bit complex. I’ve already posted my story last year...
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    Can you go to a psychologist as a christian?

    I’ve read on the internet that doctors and psychologists are not for christians to visit because of their origin. Now I have terrible OCD and I’ve learned about ERP and want to apply that, but because of what I’ve read I don’t know anymore whether I should use ERP. And what to do if you have a...
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    Can you go to a psychologist as a christian?

    I’ve read on the internet that doctors and psychologists are not for christians to visit because of their origin. Now I have terrible OCD and I’ve learned about ERP and want to apply that, but because of what I’ve read I don’t know anymore whether I should use ERP. And what to do if you have a...
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    Baptism

    For some time I have doubts whether I'm saved or not. I still don't know for certain if baptism is neccessary for salvation. I was in my late teens when I got baptised. But I didn't understood the gospel. I believe in Jesus and God and everything in the bible and I was raised as a christian...
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    Can someone please help me

    Hello everyone, 2 years ago I had this problem: Help me, I don't know what to do, extreme ocd! And now it's totally gotten out of hand. I became sick for a few months and therefore forgot about this promise and just kept buying stuff. Actually I cannot recall what happened anymore, it was...
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    I really need help, my ocd is too strong, hopeless situation for more than 2 years

    I don't go to a psychiatrist at the moment. I don't know if my church is good with mental illness.
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    I really need help, my ocd is too strong, hopeless situation for more than 2 years

    I just hope there is someone on this forum who can help me. A private message is also okay.
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    I really need help, my ocd is too strong, hopeless situation for more than 2 years

    Hello everyone, 2 years ago I had this problem: Help me, I don't know what to do, extreme ocd! And now it's totally gotten out of hand. I became sick for a few months and therefore forgot about this promise and just kept buying stuff. Actually I cannot recall what happened anymore, it was...
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    A random thought in my head which makes me worry again

    I was doing nothing and thinking about the subject travelling and which countries I was interested in and which not. Then I thought about Israel. I was thinking that I had no interest in travelling to Israel, but then I had this thought that I have sinned because I’m not interested in the...
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    Hebrews 6:4 and Hebrews 10:26, what does it mean, scared

    Thank you all for your replies, but I’m still scared I can’t help it. I have been stressing about this the whole day now. I’ve never had a day of anxiety like this. I still struggle with daily sin, with the same sins, and sins I’m addicted to for years, and things I don’t know are sin or not...
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    Hebrews 6:4 and Hebrews 10:26, what does it mean, scared

    I’m not so scared about Hebrews 6:4 anymore, because I‘ve always believed. It’s Hebrews 10:26 that I’m still worried. Because I still sin.
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    Hebrews 6:4 and Hebrews 10:26, what does it mean, scared

    I’ve read these verses before but never really thought about it. But today I’ve searched for explanation about these verses and it scares me. I struggle with daily sin. I am also addicted to a particular sin. Sometimes I don’t know what is sinful and what not. Like if I watch a television show I...
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    How to accept that I will never have children?

    I have a big problem I don’t know how to solve and I feel very hopeless about it. I have been married now for a few years and I’m somewhere in my mid thirties. I always said I didn’t want children, because I was scared after reading pregnancy stories, not even the whole labour thing, but the...
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    Covid vaccine problem, please help i don’t know what to do

    My husband wants to get the covid vaccine. I have ocd and anxiety and I believe a little bit but not sure the conspiracy theories that people will die from it all over the world. I’m the only one in my family who dont wants to take it and I’m scared my family will die and I’m the only one left...