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Slavery.

That is, forcing another human being to do something they personally do not want to do on your behalf when you are perfectly capable of doing it yourself. Bonus points if threats of violence are included when your slave protests. And you’re not compensating them for their work either.
 
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I'll start with an obvious... THEFT
Disagree. You may be stealing for a good cause. Selfish isn’t something you do but what you are.

I think selfishness is the desire to have more than everyone else.
 
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Disagree. You may be stealing for a good cause. Selfish isn’t something you do but what you are.

I think selfishness is the desire to have more than everyone else.
Yes. Such as stealing bread when your family is starving....where have I heard from that before? Hmmm....
 
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Here is a chance for one of those thread games where people list things. Add your comment to the list of what can be described as human selfishness.
People using EBT or other benefits when they have tattoos or piercings. (Yes, I've heard this one before. I don't necessarily agree, though).
 
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It is still gain at another's expense, not your own.
But it’s not selfish. Stealing can happen for selfless reasons. Don’t confuse selfishness with doing harm.
 
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Such as using their income for entertainment purposes rather than buying healthy food. If that makes sense?
Dunno if I would call that selfish. That’s reasonable behaviour. Man cannot live on bread alone.
 
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Such as using their income for entertainment purposes rather than buying healthy food. If that makes sense?
Yes. I thought perhaps because they made themselves unemployable due to the tattoos and metal.
 
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Dunno if I would call that selfish. That’s reasonable behaviour. Man cannot live on bread alone.
The words of Jesus about man not living by bread alone require a lot of stretching to make them mean: "The also need entertainment to live." The context of those words is His temptation in the wilderness:

“And the devil said to Him, “If You are the Son of God, command this stone to become bread.” But Jesus answered him, saying, “It is written, ‘Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word of God.’”” (Lu 4:3-4 NKJV)

He didn't say: "Man shall not live by bread alone, but by entertainment as well.’”
 
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