would guess in most cases where a parent/spouse is trying to starve an abuse victim to death/give them bad food, that is would be hard for the person to even get access to something like the card you suggest. They may be so watched it would be almost impossible. Plus if they would get out to shop, getting items into where they live would be tricky if this is happening to them. There may be such tight restrictions overall.
Not every abuse victim and case is how this post suggests it to be.
There are more cases like this. At one point I was watching a video about a similar “shed living” case where the kid snapped and killed the rest of his family.
As for me, I always had access to my bike, so I could have got the card if I wanted it, it would have just been a long ride. Frankly my mom would have always gave me my mail. What was keeping me there was not being unable to escape, but having no money and no safe place to live once I did. I was a very ill-informed 18-year-old, I was supposed to finish college and get a job, and I had no idea what welfare options were available to me or how to best use them to help with my situation. Restrictions at home were chaotic and changed from day to day, and my mom wouldn’t enforce half of them, but the yelling, screaming, insults, attempted property theft and damage, and physical assaults were real. I still have the paperwork from the eviction case he tried to file against me. The food was terrible until they finally moved away and I started shopping for myself. They cut off my support to try and starve me out, the EBT stopped that.
Or my friend whose mom got him fired from his job, told him to commit suicide multiple times, and left him on the street to be followed around by a gang for years. She lied to him about paying his car payments, leaving him to dodge car repossessions until the statute of limitations expired. The gang is gone, but he still has heavy trauma symptoms from all of that. EBT card helps there too.
Don’t make assumptions. Abuse comes in different shapes and forms.