Before I was "in Christ" I made many good choices --that is, they were better options than the others-- but they were not righteous. They were sinful.
How can they be considered "good choices" if they were sinful. That's nonsense.
This even includes the choice to "accept Christ". It is empty and useless, apart from God having already made me alive in Christ, out of being dead in sin (Ephesians 2).
I don't think you know what it means to be dead in sin. It has nothing to do with your ability or inability to repent and believe the gospel. Being dead in sin just means someone is separated from a relationship with God. When we physically die, our body separates from our soul and spirit. So, death is separation. We don't cease to exist when we physically die. When someone is dead in sin, they are not incapable of acknowledging their sins to God.
Jesus said that sinners are sick. Calvinists never take that into consideration. They think being dead in sins means someone is incapable of repenting of their sins without being regenerated, but that's not at all what it means.
Mark 2:16 And when the scribes and Pharisees saw Him eating with the tax collectors and sinners, they said to His disciples, “How
is it that He eats and drinks with tax collectors and sinners?” 17 When Jesus heard
it, He said to them, “
Those who are well have no need of a physician, but those who are sick. I did not come to call the righteous, but sinners, to repentance.”
Can a sick person recognize that they are sick and can't heal themselves while asking for the physician to heal them? Of course. So, when Jesus calls sinners (all people are sinners - Romans 3:23) to repentance He fully expects that they are able to answer His call by repenting of their sins and acknowledging that they can't save themselves and need Him to save them instead.
Romans 8 says that when I am not spiritually minded, I am at enmity with God, unable to please God.
But, even a Christian can be not spiritually minded at times (see 1 Corinthians 3:1-3), yet it doesn't prevent them from having faith in Christ. So, the idea that someone has to be spiritually minded, as in has to first be regenerated by the Holy Spirit to repent and have faith, is not true or else there would be no such thing as "babes in Christ" who are not spiritually minded like those Paul rebuked in 1 Corinthians 3:1-3. To not be spiritually minded prevents us from growing in our faith and obeying God, but does not prevent us from having faith in Christ. Otherwise, it would be wrong for Paul to have called those believers who were thinking carnally "babes in Christ".
One's repentance and submission is angst at best --not reality-- if it is not done by FAITH, which is a gift of God alone. Not of our strength of will.
These are your words only. This is not taught in scripture anywhere. Read the parable of the Pharisee and the tax collector in Luke 18:9-14. Why does Jesus, after the tax collector says "God, be merciful to me a sinner!’" say: "I tell you, this man went down to his house justified
rather than the other; for everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted."? In your view, it is God who humbles people and gives them faith. But, according to Jesus people must humble themselves before God while putting their faith in Christ and asking for mercy. Faith is something that God requires people to do. He doesn't give it to them.
Acts 16:30 And he brought them out and said, “
Sirs, what must I do to be saved?” 31 So they said, “Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved, you and your household.”
It seems that, to be consistent with your doctrine, you would have to answer the question of what someone must do to be saved like this: "There is nothing you can do, but hope that some day God gives you faith so that you will be saved.".
Why do you make faith an exception to the verse? (The context of the verse does not change my use of it. Besides that, the whole of Scripture is also its context). Show me wrong there.
The verse in question here is this one...
“I am the vine, you
are the branches. He who abides in Me, and I in him, bears much fruit; for without Me you can do nothing.
The context of what Jesus is saying one can't do without Him is to bear fruit. Bearing fruit has to do with doing the good works that God prepares for those who are saved (Ephesians 2:8-10). Being fruit (doing good works) is contrasted there with abiding or remaining in Him. That's where faith comes in. To abide or remain in Christ requires faith in Christ. Without keeping our faith and trust in Him, we can do nothing. He's not going to work through us if we're not trusting in Him. But, in no way, shape or form is Jesus saying there that without Him believing for us or giving us faith we can't believe in Him. No, that's not what He said at all. Instead, He's saying we can't bear fruit by way of serving and obeying Him by doing good works for Him if we are not abiding in Him (trusting in Him).
Every thing we do apart from Christ is corrupt. We are unable to have valid faith, if God has not made us alive.
That is not taught anywhere in scripture. If you're going to make claims, then back them up with scripture. I'm not going to take your word for anything and that goes for everyone else here, too.
That kind of faith is from above, not generated by man's spirit, but by God's Spirit. God's creation, not ours.
Where is this taught in scripture? How can people be expected to humble themselves if we are not even capable of putting our faith in Christ without God basically doing that for us?