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I noticed that too.

For me, when I first joined, I intended to vent (the Bible calls it rage) in a Christian setting

The Lord’s refocusing / refocused me / will refocus me on him.
 
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I noticed that too.

For me, when I first joined, I intended to vent (the Bible calls it rage) in a Christian setting.

The Lord’s refocusing / refocused me / will refocus me on him.
Gradually, gradually, Jesus May Direct / Refocus Everyone Who Seeks Him

on what is important spiritually,

and less to none on what is fleshly and/or opposed to or outside His Kingdom and His Word.
 
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Gradually, gradually, Jesus May Direct / Refocus Everyone Who Seeks Him

on what is important spiritually,

and less to none on what is fleshly and/or opposed to or outside His Kingdom and His Word.
He is much more concerned about saving you
 
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That is basically what I posted - "what is important spiritually"

because the flesh and whatever is born of the flesh is flesh, and not good for anything ("profits nothing")
 
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Sometime ago, I saw someone in this section wrote, "nobody wants to see dating threads anymore" or "those threads make people sad"

Strange thing to find in a singles forum but I get it.

Yeah, on other Christian singles or dating forums, there's people sharing their Christian singles dating experiences, or how to approach a woman in church, singles groups out and about, Meetups, etc.

Otherwise it's just benign topics.
 
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Yeah, on other Christian singles or dating forums, there's people sharing their Christian singles dating experiences, or how to approach a woman in church, singles groups out and about, Meetups, etc.

That is true.

Perhaps single people hangout here to try to heal from failed relationships or lack of success at one probably why they don't want to talk about dating anymore.

Right now, "Singles Healing" is a more apt name for this section than "Singles (Only*)"
 
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