I think the Pauline passage is culture-bound, of limited relevance, & of no present authority. Like this bizarre argument:
13Judge for yourselves: Is it proper for a woman to pray to God with her head uncovered?
14Doesn’t nature itself teach you that if a man has long hair, it is a disgrace to him,
15but that if a woman has long hair, it is her glory? For long hair is given to her as a covering.
16If anyone is inclined to dispute this, we have no other practice, nor do the churches of God.
You are to imitate me, just as I imitate Christ. Now I commend you for remembering me in everything and for maintaining the traditions, just as I passed them on to you. But I want you to understand that the head of every man is Christ, and the head of the woman is man, and the head of Christ is...
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It looks very much as though the Apostle is mistaking the conventions of Greco-Roman culture for an unchangeable law of nature. There is no "disgrace" for a man in having long hair; as the Bible itself proves. St Paul even fulfilled a Nazirite vow - he was arrested in the Temple while doing so. As for arguments from custom, if Jesus had bothered with custom, He would not have healed on the Sabbath or fraternised with "sinners" & lepers & Samaritans. St Paul's argument is ridiculous, and not at all persuasive. Saying that something is "a command of the Lord" does not make it so. For all that anyone knows, he may have mistaken the all too human biases of Paul for the Will of Christ. Claiming divine authority for one's ideas can also be a way to claim unassailable authority for them. That does not mean they are from God. His unwillingness to have his ideas challenged is a very bad sign, and suggests some insecurity.
He cannot claim the authority of Jesus for his attitude to woman, and both Huldah the Prophetess & Deborah, to say nothing of his own words in Galatians 3, undermine his pitiful attempt to keep women in their place. There is no spiritual, intellectual, moral, psychological or theological reason to prefer having men in authority in the Church, rather than women. As for the last 1990 years, men have made such a pig's ear of exercising authority in the Church that women could probably do no worse.
St Paul has put the Church in his debt; one can admit that, and also point out that he seems to have had some unfortunate blind spots. These blind spots can and should be pointed out and criticised, and replaced with something better.