You are not going by the Bible, specifically Rev 6:1-12. Those seals are under the full command of Jesus at all times.
One of the greatest proofs of that is the 5th seal. Rev 6:11 (ESV): Then they were each given a white robe and told to rest a little longer, until the number of their fellow servants and their brothers should be complete, who were to be killed as they themselves had been.
Jesus is in FULL CONTROL of each and every seal. He even knows how many have been killed, and how many more will be killed and when all of that will take place. Rev 6:11 proves it!
God's wrath, in the Trib, starts in the 2nd seal. You have run out of attempts to disprove that, because, again, Jesus is in FULL CONTROL of all the seals, at all times, and Rev 6:11 proves it!
1 Th 1:10 is the first verse written about the pre-Trib rapture. The 2nd seal is where God's wrath is "to come." It's nearest to the beginning of the Trib, and that is exactly what Paul was referring to. We will be pre-Trib raptured.
Rev 4:1 is wholly in the future because Apostle John never left the island of Patmos during his entire vision of Revelation. Rev 22:8 proves it!
Yes, God is sovereign, at all times.
But there is a difference between God directly acting, vs God permitting humans to do things, it's in His will that they do them, because these things must be done, but it is not something He Himself does.
Take the example of Judas Iscariot.
Jesus had to be betrayed so that He would die on the cross to atone for everyone's sins. However Jesus did NOT cause Judas to betray Him. Judas betrayed Jesus out of his own heart, Jesus just permitted him to do it, because it was a necessary evil.
That is the case of the first 5 seals too.
Jesus does NOT take out wrath against His own people who die for His name and for the Word of God.
He does however, let the Antichrist make war on the saints, because it is a necessary evil, God sovereignly allows the evil to happen by someone else's actions, when He could restrain it.
Jesus currently restrains certain things, such as a 1 world government, nuclear war, the destruction of Israel by its neighbors, wholesale corruption of the bible or banning of the bible, etc. These things would happen if Jesus stopped restraining them. It wouldn't be Jesus destroying Israel, or banning the bible, or causing a nuclear war, or starting a corrupt world government.
But if He stopped restraining them, He would be allowing for it to happen. All totally under His control.
But there's a difference between allowing someone else to do something, vs doing it yourself.
Look at 1 Kings 22
19 And he said, Hear thou therefore the word of the Lord: I saw the Lord sitting on his throne, and all the host of heaven standing by him on his right hand and on his left.
20 And the Lord said, Who shall persuade Ahab, that he may go up and fall at Ramothgilead? And one said on this manner, and another said on that manner.
21 And there came forth a spirit, and stood before the Lord, and said, I will persuade him.
22 And the Lord said unto him, Wherewith? And he said, I will go forth, and I will be a lying spirit in the mouth of all his prophets. And he said, Thou shalt persuade him, and prevail also: go forth, and do so.
23 Now therefore, behold, the Lord hath put a lying spirit in the mouth of all these thy prophets, and the Lord hath spoken evil concerning thee.
God wanted Ahab to be killed, but was not going to do it Himself, He wanted an enemy to kill him, and so Ahab had to be convinced to go out against the enemy so he could be killed.
A lying spirit went and convinced Ahab to go, to fulfill God's purposes.
Did God lie? No. God cannot lie.
But God allowed another agent to lie, to fulfill God's purposes.
There's a distinction.
to a degree even the bowls and trumpets are dealt with by agents of God rather than God directly. It's God's wrath in the trumpets, it's God's wrath in the bowls.
But God had agents do it for Him.
However, Jesus Himself will be personally administering wrath as well. Isaiah 34, Isaiah 63, and Revelation 19 all have Jesus personally delivering the wrath of God.
In the bible, tribulation is never equated to being God's wrath. Tribulation is always equated to religious persecution, attempts at forced conversion to another religion, imprisonment, martyrdom
That is how "great tribulation" is worse than any that has been on the Earth before. If "tribulation" meant "anything bad that killed people" well the flood killed everyone but 8.
But the flood was not tribulation, the flood was the wrath of God.
Different things.