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Thank you for your response about your father and I honor him and his service in the military.Blah blah blah.
My father was in charge of his reserve unit and their unit got deployed twice, both times he didn’t go with. The first time he wasn’t cleared to go by whomever decides such things because he had a heart attack 3 or 4 months prior, and the second time because the deployment orders came after he’d announced his retirement plans waaaaaaay beforehand and they were in the process of structuring the changeover. His age, time served, and changeover plan (his retirement meant his unit was being combined with another one) meant the higher ups decided he should stay back to coordinate the consolidation and equipment move.
Yet, there are like three or four doo dahs on his unit who believe he was ducking deployment and will insist so to this day. All of them being doo dahs that, by the way, ran afoul of him during their tenure there. But you ask them and they’ll say he tucked tail and ran. The heart attack, cardiac cath, the second heart attack he had 5 months after leaving, and the pacemaker they gave him afterwards were apparently a prolonged ruse to avoid deployment.
If you work somewhere with more than 5 other people, there’s a high likelihood one of them will be a doo dah with an axe to grind. Considering retiring from the military isn’t like giving your notice and leaving two weeks later and their orders came after he retired which means well after he announced his intention to retire, the whole “he abandoned his men” thing seems like a bit of a reach.
*ETA: I was just corrected. Deployed 4 times. Apparently they did partial deployments during Desert Storm, asked for volunteers, and enough people volunteered that they didn’t need to issue orders. They didn’t even take all the volunteers. And he was a volunteer that didn’t get picked because there was not a redundancy plan for the role he filled at the time.
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